VdangerV Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 (edited) To start off, we are both 20, but she is a little older than I am. We have been going out for almost 3 1/2 years now. Just like every relationship, we become used to eachother, and not ashamed to do dumb stuff like fart in front of eachother etc. Sex has obviously died down, but there are sometimes where we do it for a week straight, even sometimes 2 times a day still. So during some of this time, she has been getting really mad at me over tiny little things, and I have been doing the same. Things that aren't even worth it. We sometimes get over it, sometimes it lasts to the next day. I. myself, most of the time forget about the argument an hour later, and she alot brings it on even 1 or 2 days after. There is times her friend/friends would come over, and she will be laughing having a good time with them, then I say something and it's either I don't say it loud enough or her friend is more important. Then I repeat myself, and then she will answer me and stuff then go back to her friend talking. After her friends leave, she gets upset and sometimes threatens to break up with me because "I don't kiss her in front of them or show any kind of affection". I will give her a kiss when I walk in, lay next to her and play flirt with her, but I find it REALLY weird to like kiss all the time in front of her friends. This was her excuse to "break up with me" which she did for like 2 days, and during these 2 days she went out and got a piercing and some kind of stupid tattoo. She has been hanging out with one of her new girlfriends, and they constantly get in fights, because my girlfriend is a party girl, but she doesn't really party without me, but everytime her and this friend hang out, she drags my gf along to parties. There has been one night she called my house phone at 3 in the morning to come pick her up 30 minutes away from my house and that she was sitting in her friend's car the whole 3 hours she was there and that she didn't go in, and her friend was ignoring her calls and would NOT take her home. I showed up there and her friend and some random guy left 2 minutes before I got there. They got into some huge fight that night, my gf called her really really nasty names and told me to never let her be friends with her again blah blah blah. I call her friends out from the first time I see them, and I have been right about EVERY single one, including the one she got into a fight with. This girl is a hoe/slut/whore whatever you want to call her. Now my girlfriend told me the other day "I am being friends with her again". And I of course got pissed, because all this girl does is want to ****, and goes to parties/bars/clubs constantly and literally begs my girlfriend to go with her. Sometimes she does sometimes not. I told her why would you be friends with her again, that is such a stupid decision and she ends up saying stuff like "you don't control me, this is why I want to break up with you" and I don't control her. She does whatever she wants to do, I let it go, but when I want to hang out with friends it's like either "No, hang out with me" or "I bet you are going to go smoke weed/cigarettes/drink/hang out with girls" Anyway, my girlfriend answers most of my calls and stuff, but it seems like she is arguing with me over everything, and the past few times we had sex (were down to like 2-3 times a month now almost) she just tells me to finish and it hurts her. Then she will act all mad at me the rest of the night, and I asked whats wrong, and she like kinda brushed off the question, and then I said something about her dog that passed away like 4 days ago and she just starts crying and saying "I miss her" blah blah blah. We don't really do much anymore because we have no money really, there is no place to go around where I live, for atleast 2 hours. The only thing to do is hang out with friends and party which I hate partying, and I hate hanging out with friends every night, I just want nights alone with her. So usually we just limit ourselves to her bedroom and drink and watch some TV and fall asleep which bores the piss out of me. There are sometimes she would go hang out with friends while I just stayed at her house. I told her she can go hang out with her friends (I don't like hanging out with a bunch of girls) so I had no problem staying alone at her house for some hours (hence why I got fat from being skinny lol) EDIT: Like 2 days before she threatens to break up with me she is always like "I love you so much and I want to be with you forever, my dad loves you to death and thinks you are the perfect guy for me" blah blah blah. Then 2 days later there is an argument about something stupid and she will be like "I want to break up" or "I want to go on a break" Edited December 24, 2012 by VdangerV
PogoStick Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Are just sharing a story or are you asking for advice?
RachR Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 (edited) Your girlfriend is acting like this because she isn't attracted to you anymore and resents you (for that reason or perhaps others). It sounds like the relationship has run it's course. Edited December 25, 2012 by RachR
96 assorted Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 any girl that farts in front of me intentionally gets the boot, don't care how long we been together.....farting is my domain
Author VdangerV Posted December 25, 2012 Author Posted December 25, 2012 Ok, delete this thread, I appreciate the above answers but none of it is true. Thanks anyway MOD PLEASE DELETE
kaylan Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 Sorry OP, but I agree with the others. This relationship will be ending soon. A woman who values you as her man, and feels that you are right for her, will not behave the way your girlfriend is. A woman who values you as her mate will make sure she holds onto you...she wont constantly talk about breaking up. Youre still young...but with time and maturity you will see we are right.
Author VdangerV Posted December 25, 2012 Author Posted December 25, 2012 I kinda went off and said a bunch of other petty stuff. I was mad, but the only thing is, we just fight over stupid stuff, then we are fine shortly after. We are always with eachother, and she loves for me to be very affectionate in public but that's not me. I talked with her and she has told me everything. Oh, and I just re-read my post. The only time she threatens to break up with me is when I tell her not to hang out with a certain friend, because that certain friend has a reputation of being a slut. This can be deleted.
kaylan Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 It wont be deleted. This forum does not work like that. You can ignore the responses given to you, but it doesnt change the fact that your relationship has grown stale, and that you are your girlfriend have grown apart. You are young and she seems to want something different in her life. Dont say you were not warned.
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