wolvesayewe Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 ive got a massive crush on this guy in the year above me. he is lovely, a christian like me and hes so funny. we dont talk that often, but in concert band he play percussion and i play bass guitar and we both look at each other and laugh a lot. i doubt he likes me, i cant see any reason why he would. but i do find him looking a lot in my way at concert band...hes probably just checking my amp is working properly. he spoke to me the other day saying that he was ment to come to my church nativity but cudnt make it, i dunno why he wud go to that but just thought id meantion that. i just cant stop thinking about him, hes not the best looking guy but hes so lovely and i really really like him. i wish hed ask me out or we cud at least become closer friends...any advice? thanks
xdahliax Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 You don't need to wait for him to ask you out. You can begin by talking to him more often, just go up to him and ask him a question or ask him how he's doing. Once you guys speak more often and you've identified a common interest, you could ask him to hang out. Who knows, maybe he'll ask you out first when he's more acquainted with you. You could also ask him to get coffee right away, but I get the impression that you need warming up
LittlePrince Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 ive got a massive crush on this guy in the year above me. he is lovely, a christian like me and hes so funny. we dont talk that often, but in concert band he play percussion and i play bass guitar and we both look at each other and laugh a lot. i doubt he likes me, i cant see any reason why he would. but i do find him looking a lot in my way at concert band...hes probably just checking my amp is working properly. he spoke to me the other day saying that he was ment to come to my church nativity but cudnt make it, i dunno why he wud go to that but just thought id meantion that. i just cant stop thinking about him, hes not the best looking guy but hes so lovely and i really really like him. i wish hed ask me out or we cud at least become closer friends...any advice? thanks Why did you need to include an assessment of his physical appearance?
sweetkiwi Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 If you can't see a reason he'd ask you out you're in trouble. Plus. Why can't you ask him out If you're interested?????? You can't wait for men to do everything. You'd be waiting a looooong time.
crude Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 Jesus lived to his early 30's, which is like 65 now. He never had a wife, or a girlfriend, and he never asked anyone out on a date. Obviously this guy is going by what would Jesus do. It's up to you to ask him out, or forget him.
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 25, 2012 Posted December 25, 2012 Well, you have to do something to get this nice Christian boy to take the plunge and ask you out. Googly eyes alone almost never cut it! Suggest you practice one of the more challenging pieces together. Or ask him for help you with something. Or study together perhaps? You could also invite him to something Christian--small group, movie, talk, whatever... Whatever you do, flirt, banter, tease, touch him playfully as you chat... Make a point of being around him when you are in groups together, and really, flirt like your life depended on it. If they're interested, most guys will bite when you do this...well unless you dress in a burlap sack, and even then.
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