Amelie1980 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Has anyone done them to the ex? Have they ever been responded too? Good idea or bad?
Don't Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Has done emailing nah not a good idea they don't want to hear from you. If they want they will contact you. Try to be unavailable. Cheers
Harradin Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I sent a letter to my ex a few days after she broke up with me for closure, she ended up coming to see me the next day and telling me the letter was cute and she liked it. She also told my mutual friends that it confused her, she then lead me on a bit, cuddling me like she did when we went out despite being with the guy she left me for. So it basically backfired.
na49 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 No letters for my ex, she doesn't deserve them. 1
big bear Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Bad idea.. done both email and snail mail..
Author Amelie1980 Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 I'm going to write one but probably not send it. it'll help me clear my head.
cavalier99 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Has anyone done them to the ex? Have they ever been responded too? Good idea or bad? Bad idea. Just stay NC or recovery will take a lot longer. Just post them here! Hope you feel better. Stay Strong! PS I answered your question, just now, in the other thread about "Has anyone had NC done to them"
Author Amelie1980 Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 He's still contacting me though..... If you look for my on a break thread you'll see what he said about me. can't let him get away with it.
cavalier99 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 He's still contacting me though..... If you look for my on a break thread you'll see what he said about me. can't let him get away with it. The relationship is OVER. It is your job anymore to "not let him get away with it" Cut him out of you life like a cancer. If he keeps on texting you block him. Block him anyway. Or tell him it is OVER AND TO NOT CONTACT YOU EVER AGAIN! Then block him. End of story. Start over without him.
Author Amelie1980 Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 I know. I'm not quite there yet. its only been 3 weeks. I'll write the letter and not send it.
Samilia Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Has anyone done them to the ex? Have they ever been responded too? Good idea or bad? Bad. Unless you write it and then burn it, that can help you get closure. What he said about you means he doesn't give a dam, send the letter and he still won't give a dam, but you'll kiss your pride good bye for a while. It's not worth it, your silence will mean more than a letter than he might not even bother reading.
Christopher82 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Don't do it. You will seem weak in her eyes and it will probably boost her ego more than anything. She will think she has the upper hand. AT BEST, write her a letter, get it all out and keep it in your dresser tucked away. Come back to it 2-4 weeks later and see if you think/feel those same things. I'm willing to bet that you won't.
Samilia Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Don't do it. You will seem weak in her eyes and it will probably boost her ego more than anything. She will think she has the upper hand. AT BEST, write her a letter, get it all out and keep it in your dresser tucked away. Come back to it 2-4 weeks later and see if you think/feel those same things. I'm willing to bet that you won't. it's a guy, the ex
Christopher82 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 it's a guy, the ex I STAND CORRECTED!
Samilia Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I STAND CORRECTED! I get confused sometimes too
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