ellieryan85 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 So, I have a group of friends I've known for a few years and I dated one of the guys from the group for about 6 months. Our break up happened just last week, out of nowhere. He just turned out to be a commitment phobe, nothing too bad was said during the break up. We decided not to talk for a while just to smooth things over. Anyway, he didn't tell anyone about the break up, and I ended up saying very little and I said absoletly nothing negative about him. I tried to play it off like nothing was wrong. Well, our friends had previously talked to me about this party they were planning and we had talked about what we were going to do. I invited them to a different party, but they cancelled last minute. Anyway, I just got on facebook to see they decided not to invite me to their party now, but he is going. I am so beyond hurt. Not only did I lose the guy I loved, but now our friends seem to have chosen to be friends with him over me. He and I haven't talked since the break up, but we had talked about how we could remain friends, given enough time. I would have understood if maybe they had said something to me about not coming, but to just not invite me is another thing. They know I'm not a dramatic person, so I'm not sure why I'm getting snubbed this way.
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