Virexs Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 The story of my life. So I have figured that I will write on this forum because online is the only place it really makes sense to post my dating problems where people might actually care and may be I will meet a woman who would still like to get to know me. I am a 29 male living in NYC and I believe that I am facing an uncommon dating situation in my life, which is not likely to go away unless I change some of my beliefs and ways of living. I will try to list what I am talking about in one sentence. I am a 29 male who in a liberal non-denominational Christian who enjoys sex in the context of a committed relationship, who is a recovering addict/alcoholic with almost 3 years of sobriety from both, who will never do drugs or drink alcohol ever again in my whole life, who has Attention Deficit Disorder which is treated, but still creates time & organization problems in my life, who is still being supported financially because I just moved to NYC about 4 months ago to start my career, and I am making under $20,000 a year and I smoke cigarettes. I think that labels it all that I am facing with. Christian woman online won't date me because I enjoy having sex outside of a marriage. Regular woman won't date me because I don't drink and seem a bit boring to them. Here are my good qualities. I am smart, sensitive, caring, hardworking, inventive, grateful, successful, well educated, rational, polite, a gentleman, and well rounded. Can anyone explain what I'm not getting?
CarrieT Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I would question why a guy who is well into adulthood and has lived a quarter of his of his life is making less than $20k.... The rest sounds about normal.
gaius Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 You sound a little depressed. Maybe your just not that into dating right now and don't realize it? I don't really drink either and it's never been a problem.
sid3 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 The story of my life. So I have figured that I will write on this forum because online is the only place it really makes sense to post my dating problems where people might actually care and may be I will meet a woman who would still like to get to know me. I am a 29 male living in NYC and I believe that I am facing an uncommon dating situation in my life, which is not likely to go away unless I change some of my beliefs and ways of living. I will try to list what I am talking about in one sentence. I am a 29 male who in a liberal non-denominational Christian who enjoys sex in the context of a committed relationship, who is a recovering addict/alcoholic with almost 3 years of sobriety from both, who will never do drugs or drink alcohol ever again in my whole life, who has Attention Deficit Disorder which is treated, but still creates time & organization problems in my life, who is still being supported financially because I just moved to NYC about 4 months ago to start my career, and I am making under $20,000 a year and I smoke cigarettes. I think that labels it all that I am facing with. Christian woman online won't date me because I enjoy having sex outside of a marriage. Regular woman won't date me because I don't drink and seem a bit boring to them. Here are my good qualities. I am smart, sensitive, caring, hardworking, inventive, grateful, successful, well educated, rational, polite, a gentleman, and well rounded. Can anyone explain what I'm not getting? Quite smoking, seriously
Lobouspo Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Move out of the Big Apple....No offense, but with some of your issues - especially lack of income- alot of the shallow cosmopolitan types that live in NYC will not even give you the time of day.....
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