kpjake8674 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I was with a woman for a year and a half off and on and have known her for over 4 years as friends. We had a horrible year between me almost dying, her cheating behind my back, and things just went completely south. I decided to give up and move out of our apartment back in August. She started a relationship that failed and was back in my phone texting and calling wanting me back. So I give it one more time but only if we were to go to counselling to sort through all the issues and to rebuild trust. I fail and she does as well in reconnecting. I became almost needy and clingy which is not attractive and decided to break contact because things were going nowhere. This was around the beginning of November and her birthday. She has contacted me like 25 to 30 different times telling me she is going to pay me back money she owes me because I helped her get a car before we broke up in August. All i respond with is an OK and I don't answer any texts or calls from her. I finally had to tell her it's been 5 months she has had to start paying me back, that I would appreciate no more phone calls or texts about anything. And give her my new address to send money to if she is serious about paying me back. She agrees and says she won't contact me anymore. I just want to move on and have been trying to do so. I haven't contacted her once in 2 months time. I have started to get better, working out, working more at my job, spending more time with my kids, dating without anything getting serious with a couple of new women I met. Get my alpha male side back that I lost in the horrible relationship ours became. So, she agreed, yet she has already texted me twice this week alone! I just delete the texts so I can't read them. She is in a relationship now so she shouldn't be contacting me anymore because of him. I want her to just be happy as I have become happy again. Why must she continue? I do miss her, but I don't miss the drama, lies, cheating, and lack of communication we had. The woman i met, the first 5 months, that's the woman I miss. Not what she has become or whom I became after the first 5 months. What do I need to do without being immature and changing my number?
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