CLB Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Ok Ive been talking to a guy for about a mth online. We tried to meet twice but I had an issue then he had one. Now we plan to try again next week ad Im nervous now. Reason being we have been sexting for the last week and the first 3 weeks were nothing like that. Even with the nasty talk we still talk about other nice things. Should I go ahead and meet him and see what happens. Additionaly he seems like a very good person that likes me like he says:o
Author CLB Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 He wont stop sexting me so Im comfused about his intensions now
FitChick Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Meet him during the day in a public place and don't go home with him or bring him home. If he still wants to date you after that, then he is probably interested in more than sex. You never really know. 1
SmileFace Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 What are you looking for and what do you want? Stick to that Stick to that. I don't think sexting someone that you want relationship with is a good idea -however that is just me. 1
veggirl Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 He's going to expect sex, you set that precedent by engaging in sexting before you've even met, so if you are looking for a real relationship, I'd look elsewhere. Try telling him you want to cool it with the sexting for a while, see if he disappears or not. 2
Author CLB Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 Ima single parent that do not bring men to my home and he he moved here in tx last mth for a job so he has been alone here at least. We were talking on the phone about being lonely and horny so I told him to send an exposed pic and I loved it. He told me today he wants a relationship and cant wait to meet. Then he sends another " pic "and then a normal pic to keep the heat down so we can talk normal for a bit I guess
CarrieT Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 You've never met a guy you are sexting with; at this point, that is what he is expecting. Unless you want a purely sexual relationship, move on now and don't get invested further emotionally because you are probably not the only girl he is sexting with and his expectations are already there with you for actual sex. 1
veggirl Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Ima single parent that do not bring men to my home and he he moved here in tx last mth for a job so he has been alone here at least. We were talking on the phone about being lonely and horny so I told him to send an exposed pic and I loved it. He told me today he wants a relationship and cant wait to meet. Then he sends another " pic "and then a normal pic to keep the heat down so we can talk normal for a bit I guess I wouldn't necessarily believe him when he says he wants a relationship. new to the area, likely talking to many other women he met online and such. Plus he is obviously going to say he wants a relationship if he knows that's what you want to hear. Are his actions lining up with wanting a relationship? I guess you'll see. When are you meeting? What are you doing for your date? Honestly if you are looking for a relationship, I would advise against talking about how lonely and horny you are. He prob heard that and thought "cha-ching!" Cool it with any sexting until you have met. 1
Esoteric Elf Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Have you had any video conversations with him, such as with skype and such? I don't want to dismiss any illusions about DSR and so on, but there are plenty of fake profiles and sexual predators online. I seriously doubt he is any one of these, but do keep it in mind. He may just have breeched that initial shell of "shyness" and, since you seem to be reciprocating, enjoys talking about sex. I hope it turns out well for you.
truth_seeker Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I wouldn't necessarily believe him when he says he wants a relationship. new to the area, likely talking to many other women he met online and such. Plus he is obviously going to say he wants a relationship if he knows that's what you want to hear. Are his actions lining up with wanting a relationship? I guess you'll see. When are you meeting? What are you doing for your date? Honestly if you are looking for a relationship, I would advise against talking about how lonely and horny you are. He prob heard that and thought "cha-ching!" Cool it with any sexting until you have met. Take this advice to heart.
FitChick Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 We were talking on the phone about being lonely and horny so I told him to send an exposed pic ... Says it all really.
PogoStick Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Ok but she clearly wants sex too. Once she gets some she'll be able to think more clearly (serious). Maybe this should just be a fk buddy to keep you satisfied while you look for a real relationship.
edgygirl Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Sexting before meeting = doomed as relationship material, no matter what he says.
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