MissLY Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I've been dating him for 2 months (He's not my boyfriend). He says he wants to do dinner on the beach and catch the sunset for New Years Eve. Is spending New Years with a guy a big deal? For example, is it considered special or the "next step" to a relationship?
ls32ssibm Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Why are you guys not exclusive after 2 months anyway?
Brunettie Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I don't know if it's the next step, but it is special.
snowflakes88 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 How many times are you going to ask this?
GMG90 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I don't know if it's the next step, but it is special. Ditto. Since this is the first New Year's together, I'd say it's something special ... especially with the dinner and sunset. I'd say treasure this moment for sure, but who knows if its the next step.
todreaminblue Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 (edited) I've been dating him for 2 months (He's not my boyfriend). He says he wants to do dinner on the beach and catch the sunset for New Years Eve. Is spending New Years with a guy a big deal? For example, is it considered special or the "next step" to a relationship? I think it is special, i think the song auld lang syne says it all, if you are with someone at that new year thing and that is the first person you share a kiss with how is that not special.....when i have had new years with men they have been poignant.....both good and bad...my ex stole his frist kiss on new years to tell me because i am not good at hints, that he thought about me a lot more than a friend it was a charged kiss....jaw dropper from both sides.....he aslo left me sittign waiting for him alone one new years one year later ......fending off kisses from randoms hyped up on coffeee and broke...i will never share a kiss new years with soemeone who isnt going to be in my lfie for every new years...whether they are or not or it eventuates that way i go into that kiss with that thought..... doesnt matter if i kiss someones lips...or let them steal a kiss from my lips.....its more intimate to me than sex.......its special...thats why new years is poignant to me........this year i am thinking of breaking my old ways and it not being about i want...or passion i feel for this tradition of mine..and chucking a party and breaking teh kiss ideal ..my heart says noooooooo...smilin.....so as usual......my heart will probably win and ill visit my fave place with no party attached........and keep what i hold special alive..two months and no exclusive boyfriend talk....thats a bit strange in my book...you should knwo by now how special you fidn him and he finds you...enough to have that special kiss on new years.......deb Edited December 24, 2012 by todreaminblue 1
runningfar Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I've been dating him for 2 months (He's not my boyfriend). He says he wants to do dinner on the beach and catch the sunset for New Years Eve. Is spending New Years with a guy a big deal? For example, is it considered special or the "next step" to a relationship? I don't know if it's the next step, but there is something special about the new year's kiss... If you want to know where the relationship is going, ask him. Don't guess.
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