Daking123 Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 What to do when your ex keeps telling you they love you over and over again, but is with someone else........... Here's my story so my ex of 3 years we broke up 7 months ago, she up and left out the blue, i didnt beg her to come back i just let her go... We barely talked the first 3 months (June-September) but then she just started texting me out the blue with "I love you" texts. So in my head im thinking is she trying to work something out. So I keep the convo short and light. Then October rolls around i find out shes talking to somebody, i confront her about it and she says yes... The only thing is the guy she talks to go to school with her so she sees him everyday. So after i confront her i told her its best if she just stops messing with me and she said she will..... A week later she texted me asking if i was at work and i was she stopped i said hey to her and thats it..... Then the next day she comes by my work again and the after that she did again....... So I started to think maybe she is trying to tell me something.... So a week go by she still texting every 2 days saying she loved me and she knows its a fact. So she came into my work i gave her the shoulder where i acted like i didnt see her, and she texted me a=saying that hurt her..two days after on she was stalkin my twiiter page and she said go check her twitter she tweeted "I always have you thru our ups and downs, i love you forever and a day :)" she had .. So she called me that night asking what changed i didnt know what to say at the time so i just said idk...... So last week i woke up to a text from her saying "Hey.... I love you" i replied back and she kept the convo going then she randomly brought up a song we made love to the first time we did it and she started talking about all the good memories we had..... So i told her i had to go, and she asked i i wanted to hang out with her next weekend and i agreed, then the next night she called and asked if i could come over her house................ But Tuesday i asked her if she was still talking to that guy and she said yes..... I just told her she shouldnt have kept leading me on if shes seeing someone, ive heard there always together during school and out of school.............. But my thought is why was she leading me on if she is seeing someone
shalisha42 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Hi. I imagine that she is contacting you now, 7 months later, because things aren't going well with the guy she is seeing. She wants you as a backup plan. If she wanted you back, she would be honest and mature and say, "I really messed up. I love you and I want to work things out." Instead, she's playing these childish games. Ask her not to contact you anymore, and stop replying to her texts.
Game Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Every girl loves receiving attention - no matter who it comes from...even if it's a dude that she has no interest in. From my experience, it is the persistent guy who wins in the end..so if this guy at school is trying to get with her, it seems that he eventually will if you back out of the picture (since it seems that they are not officially together yet). On the other hand, she is also talking to you so there are two guys in the picture. It seems that she is more interested in getting with you at the moment bc of your "history" and her dropping the "i love you"s. I'm pretty sure she's not telling the other guy "I love you" just yet. Her telling you that there is another guy in the picture could be to stir up jealousy in hopes of you changing your mind about her, but it's also a dangerous game that she is playing because it could totally backfire on her. The ball is in your court. If you want to get back with her, it sounds like she would be willing to do so.
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