intoyour_arms Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 Hi everyone! I'm in a bit of pickle at the moment and would appreciate any advice given! So here's the deal, there's a guy at my work (we're co-workers and about a year age difference) whom I a bit of a crush on. He's a really sweet guy and I was wondering if someone would be able to tell me whether there's a slight chance he might like me back cause I get the feeling he might! Here's a list of why: 1. When he cracks jokes or says something that's supposed to be funny, he'll turn to look at me. (I've heard that a guy might do this to a girl they like to see how they react to what they're saying?) 2. If I'm in his way, instead of asking me to move, he'll put his hand on shoulder/back and gently nudge me out of the way. Lately when we're talking he'll rest his hand on shoulder/back. 3. I 'll catch him looking at me. When I do I smile at him and he smiles back. 4. He jokes about my height. I'm quite short and he'll playfully make fun of me about me about it. 5. If he changes something about his appearance he'll ask what I think about it. Ages ago he used to have fairly long hair for a guy but then he shaved it all off and he asked me whether I liked him better with long or short hair. The other day he got new glasses (which look really adorable on him) and he asked if I liked them and if I liked his haircut and how he could fix it cause it was a home job. Please tell me your thoughts on the situation. I don't want to go after him if he doesn't feel the same and ruin a good friendship and make things awkward at work! Thanks for all the help
Eddie Edirol Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 Those actions you think are signs are too ambiguous to know. He could just be friendly and outgoing, or he could be playing it cool to gauge your interest. If he hasnt asked you out yet, then most likely he isnt interested enough to do so. If he is and hes too scared, then one of you has to make a move and take a chance. Also, chances are, he isnt thinking friendship like you are. If he likes you, he wont care about the friendship if it doesnt work out (Plus you dont really have a true friendship if you cant tell if he likes you). So take a chance, ask him out, and turn up the heat, you will see how he reacts, you will have to deal with what happens afterwards, good or bad. Other than, you shouldnt be dating people at work, its a recipe for disaster.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 It's hard to say if he's into you or he's a metrosexual who wants a woman's opinion on his get up. I kid. I know how you feel. I've worked closely with women I craved. I eventually got involved with someone from work but there was at least some distance between us where if things went bad (and they occasionally did) we didn't have to interact. That's what I'd be concerned about--not so much dating someone from work but someone I literally work with. Obviously you mean something to him. What is the question.
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