edwardo47 Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 Not trying to toot my own horn but I have been going out last 3 Saturday nights. Last night a woman who is already divorced hit it off with me. Did not sleep together but some making out right before the close of the bar. My question to you all is it too soon for any type of fling. It has only been a month and a half since STBXW asked for separation. She only moved out a week ago. It was a big ego boost to me that this woman was interested in me but I am wary of things at the moment. I did get her number and she is an extremely funny down to earth 49 year old. What to do.
road Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 I don't know why you are separated. What I do know is that you should not be dating until the divorce is final.
2.50 a gallon Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 When I caught my Ex kissing the OM and kicked her out, it was the low point of my life. I fell into a deep dark hole where there was no light, no joy, no laughter. Then one day about 3 weeks later a pretty face looked down at me in my black hole and asked my if I wanted to come out and play. And in an instant I was once again above the clouds and flying with eagles. So I know exactly what you are experiencing. It is a helluva a kick to find out that you are still attractive to the opposite sex. As to what you do with this knowledge, I say be careful, from what I have read, so far you have taken the high road. When you expose your EX to her family and friends you need to have clean hands. For now your number one concern should be your kids and you being the best father you can be.
Angel Heart Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I met a fairly new legally separated man and we were instantly attractive to one another. The downside of dating a non-divorced man is simple; his first priority is his children and getting accustomed to living alone takes a long time. I'm just the rebound and know it; it doesn't phase me because someone has to be. Of course, a part of me feels he is still sleeping with his wife; just an instinctual concern, no proof. He indicated he wasn't so I'll just take his word for it. I glad, OP, you are still desirable; you need that ego boost and thankfully you're receiving it. Good luck and best wishes for the Holidays.
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