red-kal Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 i was so worried about this until i started doing it. You instantly get better with time, in a day i was an expert, thinking my experienced girlfriend had work to do. my advice to you is do what you want, i like to "lightly, passionately" suck on my partners lips usually mid kiss The best thing i have noticed for women is not the actual lip kissing itself but the build up... women love build up at least in my experiences for the kiss.... the more you want the other person the better the kiss, build the event up in your head a little before going in.. the seconnds before and up to the kiss are how you talk to her (lsaying i love you before kissing definately heightens the experience for both) hold her close or hold her face (don't pull or jerk), i believe making strong eye contact is very important here (look at partner with love and or lust) finally downwards motion then go in going slowly is key because most of us close our eyes right before we kiss... it is to prevent bruises. LOL... there comes a time when you love your partner so much ... you purposely keep your eyes open to look at them during kissing... that is why i occassionally do this. Good luck
UCFKevin Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 It does, of course, depend on who you're kissing and how good they are. You can't have a good kiss with someone who thinks they're eating a Klondike bar. I was very lucky in that my first girlfriend was an INCREDIBLE kisser and basically led me to do things the way I do them now. more or less.
kino Posted August 19, 2004 Posted August 19, 2004 oh i think a li'l nibble on the lips is pretty good! lightly, i stress real lightly! holding on to the bottom lip with ur teeth n pulling away...aahh always a turn on! n a signal for the next move haha
Papillon Posted August 19, 2004 Posted August 19, 2004 All I can say is take it easy with that love muscle called your tongue - and don't slobber the other person's face. It's possible to be heavily passionate without being messy
EC Posted August 19, 2004 Posted August 19, 2004 This is not really a style just on kissing in general. I like to kiss like I mean it, and I like my partner to know that in the first touching of lips that my kiss is the one by which all other kisses will be judged. I like my kisses to seem to promise everything, but imply nothing. I like kisses for the sake of kisses, not necessarily leading up to anything more. I like suprise kisses, long kisses, secret kisses, stolen kisses, soft kisses. I love all kisses. My style? I would have to say I'm a very passionate kisser. I like to lean in and linger a second till you can feel the humidity of the breath. I like to start slow just barely touching the lips. Then kis both lips lightly. Back away and then come in for a more firm kiss. Then gently use tongue but not so much for me kissing with just lips sometimes can be so nice. I like to nibble or suck on the bottom lip as well. Sometimes Il ike to kiss the cheeks, each eye, the nose, the chin, the forhead and then lightly the lips. Man I love a really good kiss that leaves you breathless and floating... Ahh (sigh)
frogprinz29 Posted August 19, 2004 Posted August 19, 2004 I like suprise kisses, long kisses, secret kisses, stolen kisses, soft kisses. I love all kisses. My style? I would have to say I'm a very passionate kisser. I like to lean in and linger a second till you can feel the humidity of the breath. I like to start slow just barely touching the lips. Then kis both lips lightly. Back away and then come in for a more firm kiss. Then gently use tongue but not so much for me kissing with just lips sometimes can be so nice. I like to nibble or suck on the bottom lip as well. Sometimes Il ike to kiss the cheeks, each eye, the nose, the chin, the forhead and then lightly the lips. Man I love a really good kiss that leaves you breathless and floating... Ahh (sigh) My response: jaw open..."wow..."..."hello"
Wellnowuknow Posted August 19, 2004 Posted August 19, 2004 Sometimes Il ike to kiss the cheeks, each eye, the nose, the chin, the forhead and then lightly the lips. I do that too! But my bf and I are weird right now. That just made me miss him sooo much.
Wolvesbaned Posted August 22, 2004 Posted August 22, 2004 Neo, A memorable kiss isn't just technique -- a lot of it is about the moment right before your lips meet. Look in each other's eyes for a bit, if there's a connection between the two of you, it doesn't really matter if you hold her just so. Every girl has her "thing" (holding her waist, holding up her chin, holding the back of her neck, grabbing her hair a bit, whatever) and it's true there shouldn't be a mold. A kiss on the nose from one person can be such a downer but can be the most memorable thing when someone else does it. Whatever you do, just don't drool too much. There's nothing worse than a messy kisser!
RowanRavyn Posted August 22, 2004 Posted August 22, 2004 Kisses are wonderful things: I love it when he wakes me up with tiny kisses on my shoulder, or when I am doing dishes and he wraps one arm around my waste and pulls my hair out of the way and kisses my neck and I can just lean back into him. I love the unexpected kiss when he suddenly grabs me and spins me around and kisses me deeply then walks away (because he knows I am going to chase him down for more). I love it when he grabs me and dips me and kisses me with over flourished silliness in front of the kids and they giggle and scream do it again! I love it when we are talking about nothing in particular and he slides ever closer, nudging me gently, our lips never really meeting while our eyes do, lips hovering for what feels like hours almost touching but not, our words whispered against each others lips, a trial of wills until one of us can stand it no longer and presses their lips franticly against the other. I love it when he grabs me by the pony-tail and pulls my head back so he has full access to my lips and my neck (usually holding both my hands in one of his) and leaves me breathless, then holds me close because he knows if he lets go I will fall on my ass. I love getting that silly flavored lip gloss I had as a kid, and kissing him while he tries to figure out the flavor. I love the quick peck I get when he rushes out the door to school, and I love the giggle fit I have when he rushes back in for just one more. I love that if he leaves before I am awake he kisses me anyway, and makes sure I hear him say "I love you."
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