Neo Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 I really want a detailed explanation of this... how do you kiss? Is there a certain way to give a quick kiss? Like, how should you move your lips/how loud should it be? What about longer kisses? How on earth should your lips be moving? I don't want to mess up my first time... I want to at least *know* what I am doing (even if I am bad) as opposed to not knowing and being bad, regardless =)
frogprinz29 Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 Try watchin' some soap operas. Those people seem to know what they're doing and look good doin' it. Try watchin' some chick flicks too. Try askin' some girls that you know about how they like being kissed.
magda Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 Well, are you asking how *I* kiss, or how *to* kiss. Because most everyon kisses differently. I, for instance, am very lippy, sometimes sloppy, and usually well lubricated. A short kiss, lets see. <kisses hand to test> Ah! For a short kiss that you would not give your mother, you keep your mouth closed but let your lips open slightly, so that there's no tongue or anything, but there is perhaps moisture from the inside of your lip. As far as noise, don't consciously make any - there will be noise, but as long as you aren't purposely making smacking sounds, then volume is at an appropriate level. As the short kiss moves into a longer kiss, in my personal kissing style, lips begin to get lightly sucked. Grab a lip, and suck it. Lightly.. (and quickly - not like, a lolipop or something, more like you're just tasting.. someone elses lolipop ) and then we see the appearance of tongue. Just touch the tongue to the lip - sensually. You're caught in the mood. So long as your kissing buddy is also showing themself comfortable with using some tongue, you're ready to introduce your tongues to each other .. whenever you're ready. Usually if you don't got nowhere to go and you're both enjoying the kiss, tongue happen within a minute or so. (Much less if you've already kissed each other plenty...) Just open your mouth a little more, and let your tongue slide out even further. The other person should be able to tell your mouth is more open and will likely follow suit so that your tongue won't have to "knock" on his/her lips - but even they weren't expecting a visitor just then I find that they open the door just as soon as someone knocks. So now you're totally invited in and it's just a matter of what you feel like doing. The best kissing, as I mentioned, is less "tongue" just going back and forth, and more wet lip sucking. Softer is better, in all cases. Slower rather than faster, especially if you don't know what you're doing. My first kiss was with a boy that obviously hadn't kissed before. It was kind of funny. He stuck his tongue in my mouth and just made circles with it, like a helicopter. It was like a ring-around-the-rosies party in my mouth! hehe. I was a little worried, but luckily I didn't have to wait too long for my next kiss with someone else to figure out that *phew* okay, I do know how to kiss - it's just like I thought it would be! ..Anyway... Right, so, don't get too much into a "pattern" with your tongues. Not just circles, but with whatever you're doing. To break the monotony-did I mention this?-you can always suck on a lip. Oh, and whatever you do, don't forget to smile. The super-best thing about kissing is how sexy my guy looks up close. I love looking at him. His eyes.. and the spot under his eyes next to his nose... But then, don't stare because that's unnerving. Take little breaks from kissing to look at each other and smile - then when you resume, you can use the change to reposition yourself so that you can cop a feel. Now, as far as initiating your very first kiss, don't be skirred! Just lean in and do it. It took me a few kisses with a few guys before I'd dare to initiate, but please, as if I'd be rejected! If she's vibin with you and you can tell, she probably would love to kiss. You'll only get in trouble if you start going along faster than she's following you. That's about it, I guess. A kiss with everyone is a little different, but the best ones are with people who keep their lips and tongue soft instead of stiff, aand keep a medium pace (but not monotonous). Once you start *making out* you are pretty much a master and I don't have to explain anything about how everything gets a little faster and maybe louder and harder and heavier... Oh, but after you graduate to "making out" you should also take breaks from kissing his/her mouth and start taking visits over to the earlobes, and the neck. I suck my boys earlobes. He thinks they are directly connected to... anyway... Darn, I'm not seein him till the weekend - now I really wanna hump him! Oh, and kiss him! wanna kiss him!
Pocky Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 My kiss changes depending on who I kiss. I never kiss the same way with everyone.
frogprinz29 Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 BRAVO! BRAVO! Magda, you gave a very nice description of kissing. Every kisser, kisses differently. But once in awhile you meet a person who kisses in tune with you. Much like dancing and making love. For me, makeing your lips soft while kissing is nice, but don't go too limp. I like to feel that my partner isn't dead. Changing it up is nice. Soft, changing up with a little firmness but not stiff like a board, wet but not sloppy like the way your dog would lick your face when you get home. Try to keep all the moisture and wetness within the borders of the lips with regards to mouth kissing. The tongue is also soft, changing up with a little firmness but not rigid. Be receptive to your partner. Your partner will give you signs to what gets her hot and flowin'. I like Magda's lollipop example. Be careful not to knock teeth too. If you do it right then, the first make out session could last until you hear the birds chirpin' and daylight breaks through the curtains. Like I mentioned earlier, Magda gives a very nice description of the first kiss. Braa-vo.
UCFKevin Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 Y'ever see someone put peanut butter on a dog's nose?
Author Neo Posted August 17, 2004 Author Posted August 17, 2004 When you kiss do your lips sort of move in-to-out or out-to-in if you know what I mean?
faux Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 I think that kissing will come naturally to you. I shared my first real kiss with my first girlfriend, who refused for a time to believe I had never kissed before. Either you will put all of your emotions into it and be amazing, or you may not be so amazing. Either way, just go with the flow.
UCFKevin Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 Ahhh, moi, I think everyone has a specific style of kissing that they like to do or have done to them. Here's mine, it's my ideal kiss. I would lightly put both hands on the girl's cheeks softly, look into her eyes, lean in slowly, gently kiss both of her lips, pull away and in the process lightly lick her top lip, go in for a more firm kiss, still just lips, then our tongues would touch a little, kinda teasing each other, then I would wrap one arm around her back and the other holding the back of her head and pull her close to me and kiss her deeply, swirling my tongue around in no specific direction or motion, just however it feels right.
savethedrama4allama Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 Umm yeah... like Kevin said. Dude, that little description was NOT fair. How am I supposed to focus on anything now? Dang.
EC Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 savethedrama4yrmama seriously.. damn.. anyways BTW Kev I prefer both of your hands around my waist and my hands around your neck.
RowanRavyn Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 Whoa!! Wow. ::Fans herself:: See, Cali folks are hot!!! Funny to read this thread on kissing right after the thread on oral sex. I think that good oral sex may be directly related to good kissing. Hmmm, must go find the honey!
savethedrama4allama Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 Any more than what has already been said would be softcore porn, wouldn't it?
UCFKevin Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 Potentially. I'll wait for the "Specifically how do you go down on a girl?" or "finger a girl" or "make love to a girl" threads.
savethedrama4allama Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 Okay, well notify me when that happens.
moimeme Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 I'll wait for the "Specifically how do you go down on a girl?" or "finger a girl" or "make love to a girl" threads. You could always start one yourself
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