HighFlight12 Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 So I've been best friends with a woman that I grew up with for about 8 years. I always wanted to be with her, and finally I pursued her. Throughout the 8 years I had been in relationships, all I could think of was her. I dated other women because she never really put forth the effort as I did. When I got in my last relationship, I didn't hear from her for maybe 2 years due to my decisions. When we started talking again, it was as if we had never stopped talking. I asked her to be with me recently and she declined me and said that her feelings were not consistent for me and that she has tried to be consistent. I feel that I don't know how I am suppose to be with her now, the only thing I knew to do was to back off and give her space. What do I do about her, should I wait, should I move on (every woman I have ever dated, it didn't feel right being with them, with her it's no pressure). I still want to be her friend, she's my best friend, but I am hurt over this situation, but I'd never admit it to her. What do I do? I just don't know what to do. I have had very limited contact with her, and I told her I didn't know how to be towards her now, so she told me that if i felt I needed to take space from her, she understood. So I deleted her number to keep myself from contacting her, what do I do?
Author HighFlight12 Posted December 23, 2012 Author Posted December 23, 2012 Would really like some advice!
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