thembones Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Long story short, together 3 years broken up for 4 months..NC for the last 2. I deleted her and her family from my Facebook a couple months ago, but she is still Facebook friends with my sister. A few days ago she tagged my sister in a Facebook post about dogs. It said that whenever she is sad, she looks at this picture and it makes her feel better. We thought it was a mistake at first because my sister was unable to view the post on her phone (and I just didn't want to look at it). Today my sister was able to view it and it was a pug and my sister has a pug. Why the hell is she contacting my family? We haven't spoken in a long time and she goes thinks she can do this? She wanted me out of her life so why did she do something so stupid!? Should I contact her and tell her to piss off? Thanks.
Radu Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 A bid for your attention ... she wants you to contact her.
movingon12 Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 What I would want to know is why your sister is still friends with her on fb?
NavyAirTraffic Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Have your sister un-tag herself, then block her. Don't play her silly little game. She's affected you enough!
Author thembones Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 I don't know why they're still friends, but that's ending.. Do you really think she wants my attention? I have a phone and email if she really wanted to get in touch, although she is very passive-aggressive.. Or is it maybe just what it is on the surface? She tagged 3 other people as well and said "to my dog lovers..." and she just thought she'd like it.. Or is it just a game or tease? She's made nearly no effort to contact me since she left, besides a couple stupid texts.
HaveFaithxx Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 whoa, you are looking into it way too much. Your sister has a pug, and so she tagged her. That's it. She has your sister as a friend on fb so of course she thought it would be ok to do that. That's it, it has nothing to do with you. She wasn't thinking about you. Maybe a split second.
Chi townD Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 I agree. I think you're reading WAY TOO MUCH into it. Chances are, she didn't even think of you at all when she did that. Just ignore it and continue to move forward.
LostOne1 Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 yeah I'd ignore it and let it go. Even if she is some how wanting attention.. just ignore it all and show that it doesn't affect you in any way. I'm a little surprises that she didn't delete your sis off FB? My ex's sis deleted me off.. though I did add her to my restricted group, because I didn't want my ex snooping off her sister's FB account to keep tabs on me while she has me blocked. Seemed un fair to me.
Author thembones Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 Yeah she hasn't deleted anyone.. I asked my cousins and such to remove her and they did. But I'm going to close up the loose ends and have my mom, dad, and sister remove her.. but I'll probably have to do it for my parents. It doesn't affect me, but just makes me realize how big of an idiot she is. I really don't give a **** why she did it.
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