mr-lonely Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Hi Been with my gf for 7 years. Been ok but had a few rows / splits ( 1 day max ) 18 months ago she cheated on me, after a row an time apart i forgive her for this Now - we now got a new rented house together but tonite she split with me She said lots of things, she sad as its her 1st xmas without her grampa or aunty as the passed away, she feels liw every day, some stuff about me and lots more She dumped me now, she said on a txt its not me its her and needs to be alone, She was sad yesterday and today an fistant from me but this afternoon seemed all ok holdin around me, lookin at house stuff to buy even bought me xmas stuff today Im so confused, she said its over Im just curled up on the sofa, low as hell feelin suicidal, got no mates as they all moved away ir got kids, my family are not the supportive type, wa do i do Feel even worse as its 3 days b4 xmas,
Mcnulty Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Sorry you're feeling so low and haven't got much support. First off, you need to get some clarity from her. She's contradicting herself, buying you xmas stuff and things for the house. Find out where you stand, before you make your next move. Hey, you haven't done anything wrong and yes, she's right when she says it's about her, but you really need to know where you stand. ****ty situation to be in, so close to xmas as well.
Author mr-lonely Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 Well she text me just now, and said she feels lows and missrable every day and its getting worse. I said, if its about the family members mentioned above i can be there for her, help and be supportive. Also as she is unhappy as she thinks she put weight on i said wait till jan and start a dedicated diet She said she is low in genral, we meetin up at 8pm to chat but what do u say as im upset and dont want to crumble infront of her, i got it stuck in my head its not going to go well
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