WhoIAm Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Now worries me as I try to change myself. I havent dated in years due to life and health circumstances, I have tried but it doesnt work out at all. I am 29 now and changing everything in my life but looking back I realised I had a very poor narrow mind with women but I dont know if I was right or wrong. I met a lot of girls, dated few but looking at where they are now it is a worry, all the ones I got on best with are now single mothers. I seem to attract this type, girls who are a bit loopy or masculine, but now I have realised I am a simple guy and I want to get serious and I have a past too. I was never completely serious with them as I believed it to be a waste of time, we were too young, they were all from separated parents, and either NPD, HPD or misandrists. Beautiful girls in the poorest of circumstances from a relationship pov. I understand now no1 is perfect and the emotional side of me says if I could go back and change things I would of taken them more seriously but another part of me sees things more logically, just as I thought back then it is evident from their circumstances now they were not relationship material. I like to think these women just need to find the right guy but it seems instead they need serious help.
Brit Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Healthy people are aware of their problems, and do seek help, and do not date until they have dealt with them effectively.
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