I want my ex back

[itsmakaela]

Just tips on how to get my ex back...please help

[TaraMaiden]

Who dumped who?

Why?

When?

What contact have you had with them since?

 

EDIT

ok, just read your past posts.

 

You come across as needy, desperate, clingy, low-self-esteem and frankly, you have to make yourself a person whom he would want to go out with.

You've broken up before, so this is lather, rinse repeat.

You're the same person he broke up with before....

 

you need to change yourself.

 

For yourself, not for him.

 

Be the person you'd love to spend your whole life with.

 

because that's who you are going to be with your entire life.

 

You.

 

You have to show more confidence, more independence and be more self-assured.

 

In short - you need to work on yourself, before you can make a success of a relationship.

Edited December 22, 2012 by TaraMaiden

[sotoman]

ive read your other post.

 

sorry youre going thru this, but i think hes making it pretty clear that his mind is made up.

 

i know it hurts, ive been dumped recently as well.

 

bit of advice- go out and have fun.

hang out with your friends and act like youre over him.

its not easy to do, but try your best.

 

let him see you somewhere, laughing and having fun.

when you see him, just wave and say hi like hes a normal friend from school.

 

then he will wonder why hes not getting the special treatment from you anymore.

 

ill bet his curiosity will get the better of him, and he will make contact with you.

[itsmakaela]

I actually act like I moved on, im only needy ad low self esteem on here because I really show how I feel on Here. I act so happy around him and I go out and have fun all the time. But I completely understand! Thank you !!!