kyle77 Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 So lately my ex has been causing me some grief. She is with a new guy, and lately her friends have been contacting me to catch up and say hi etc. So she has been on my mind more than usual. While part of my problem is I havent been able to find someone new to focus my attention on, the other half is that I miss my ex still and dont like the thought of her with someone new. How do I go about finding someone new? I would love to meet someone new because that way I can focus my attention on them instead of my ex. I feel like it would really give me closure on my past relationship if I met someone new....it just seems like I cant meet anyone new I am interested in. Now the second part I know I cant really do much about, but do you guys have any tips as to how I can cope with my ex seeing someone new, and her being a part of my life even though she isnt with me anymore?
Mcnulty Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 If I started seeing a girl, who says to me, "I'm so pleased I've met you and we can be in a relationship, because my ex has a partner and I dont like the thought that she has someone and I haven't as I still have feelings for her", know what i'd do?...Run a mile. Do you understand where I'm coming from with this?
Sav Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Yea I agree. This isn't a competition. Take your time, you will find someone
sadpanda87 Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 If I started seeing a girl, who says to me, "I'm so pleased I've met you and we can be in a relationship, because my ex has a partner and I dont like the thought that she has someone and I haven't as I still have feelings for her", know what i'd do?...Run a mile. Do you understand where I'm coming from with this? in fact thats what i did recently. amazingly the girl didnt run and tried to help. but rebounds hardly ever turn out well. hang in there, wait till youre ready. thats what im doing
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