BlueeyesChoco Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 I don't know if this is suppose to go here. But i just have to ask this. It's driving me nuts. Sexual stamina lasting to fast is really a bad thing. But sexual stamina lasting way to ****ing long is my problem. It's really depressing and really embarrassing that it take's me to long to climax with the lady i am with. Them saying to me that i last way to long is really embarrassing. For some damn reason, my stamina last's like 50 to 60 minutes. So i can so tell when the lady is not happy about that when she has to mention every time that i last too long. I told my friend my problem and he thinks i'm nuts. He says it's a good. How the hell is that a good thing???? I honestly feel like crap when this happens. Also it does not help that the lady has to lie through her teeth and say it's good to be strong. Again, i have to say, that this is really embarrassing. What can i do to fix this? Honestly, this ****'s been bugging me for a long time. Basically, if it last that long, it's get really boring in the middle of it. I really need advice on this please.
Charlie Harper Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 I can last the same if I take my time and control the ejaculation, I get 2 or 3 climaxes from a long session of sex, but ther eis always someone your partner can do to drive you nuts, maybe a position, oral, pressing her legs, whatever, experiment because if you dont have a problem related with a physical problem, chances are you are not relaxing enough, or have the same problem that premature ejaculators, they get too nervous, worked uop and they fire away asap, your problem may be the same with different results... (not enjoying sex). 1
sweetkiwi Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Uhm there's nothing wrong with you. She's insensitive. Come to Europe and I'll help you out
sweetkiwi Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Also i had an ex with the opposite problem. Two minutes max. With breaks. I never made him feel bad about it. Plus it was fun blowing him on commercial breaks. 1
Author BlueeyesChoco Posted December 23, 2012 Author Posted December 23, 2012 2 minutes???? Are you serious?
Angel Heart Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 Hmmm, are you giving her enough TLC? Spoiling her with in all those fun ways? Are you switching positions, locations, changing the atmosphere? Have you spoke to her asking if they're anything she would like to do different for some adventure and change? If you are just banging away then she may not be enjoying herself that much; variety is the key. Perhaps teach her some tricks to get you off faster. I've learned some techniques to speed up the process which they seem to enjoy. Fulfill some fantasy for her, for example. And have her fulfill one of yours.
newmoon Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 are you older? i have a much older bf and it takes him forever to finish (maybe 45-60 minutes) and yeah, i do get tired and bored after a while. mixing up positions and location helps, as does some role play stuff, it helps create a fantasy for him each time. i've finally figured out that lots of dirty talk gets him motivated too. i consider it a problem, because i get tired faster than 60 minutes and my interest starts to go down
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