ReadMyThread Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Is the grass ever greener on the other side? I know she is happy without me right now but will there be a time she isn't happy without me? Is the guy she left me for everything she ever wanted in a man? Is he better than me? He probably makes her 10x happier than I ever did and gives her everything I couldn't give her. I should be happy that she is happy huh? Accept the fact that I wasnt good enough for her and she found someone who was better and is now falling in love with him right? He is better than me and I can see why she would leave me for him. He's got a lot more to offer than I do. She upgraded and is loving life right now spending it with her new toy. They deserve each other though. She wants a guy that will never love her as much as I did and who has no self respect, while he wants a girl who cheated on someone she "loved" and LEFT for him. They are meant to be happy together. As for me? Lol. I have no idea what the hell I'm even doing anymore. lol. Living a unhappy life one day at a time hoping some girl can show what it is to love again. Who knows? Only time...
Sav Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 In life, there's ups and downs. No one will stay happy 24/7. ever. Your life will go upwards and hers downwards and vice versa. Even more so in a relationship, there's always the good and the bad. Ever heard of a couple who were in a perfect relationship with no quarrels whatsoever? It all comes down to how you see things mate. You will stand up again if you choose to. Trust me, things will turn out better
na49 Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 I wouldn't be so hard on yourself. There are things that you have that this clown doesn't. She picked him over you, just chalk it up as a loss and keep going. (I know the feeling, me and you both were dumped for someone "better" except I don't see him as "better") She's not your problem anymore. She'll cheat on him, or he'll cheat on her and they'll be just as miserable as we are feeling now. Nothing lasts forever, don't expect her next relationship to last forever either. I'm almost positive that this guy isn't "the one" and they will be done eventually. You say you're waiting for a girl to show you happiness or what it is to love again. I think you'll be waiting for a long time if you go at it this way. Instead of learning what love is, learn what self respect is and fall in love with yourself. You're not worthless, you don't deserve to be treated like dirt. The right girl will show up, but not if you live life looking for her.
NavyAirTraffic Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Is the grass ever greener on the other side? Yes, and that's ok. Just because you weren't perfect for her doesn't mean you're not perfect. Always be yourself!! If someone loves you unconditionally for that, great! If they don't, great again!
Radu Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 No, it isn't ... because it becomes a Syndrome, and it is a coward's way of solving an internal problem. You can't run from yourself forever.
NavyAirTraffic Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 No, it isn't ... All of my ex's are still my ex's. Either for me or for them the grass is greener enough to not go back. I've left amazing women in my past behind, they will be amazing wives one day, they were amazing people, but not for me.
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