ImSoStupid Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 im 21 and she is 19. my girlfriend, "A", and I have been dating for three years. everything has been amazing in our relationship., she is beautiful, sexy, intelligent, trusting, funny, ect anything a guy could want in a girlfriend. our sex life was amazing shes also kinky as hell so things never got boring. ive been in love with her for five years (yes before we even started dating) the only negative thing about her is that sometimes she lacks the loving passion i want/need. this is due to her crappy past though. i love her she is my bestfriend. well, at the end of october i had to go down south, 6+ hours away, and be with my family, im still here, because of stuff going on. this is the longest i have been away from her. I only got to see A for one weekend since ive been gone. im used to seeing her everyday and at least having sex 5/7 days a week. there is a girl i work with, "H", and she is very pretty and fun to be around. our families are close to one another and this is the first time ive met her. well, we started out talking and just hanging out as friends and by the end of it all, we've had sex three times. first time we were both drunk, the other two times we were just horny. she is completely different from "A" but i feel nothing for her. on the one weekend i went to see "A", we only had sex one time cause i felt so guilty, this upset her but I felt so much guilt. after i went back home, a few days later i finally told "A" what had happened. she was heart broken. I begged her to at least stay with me until I come back home to see her, which is tomorrow and she half heartily agreed to talk to me about it. I feel like shes already made her mind up to break it off. i dont know what to do, i feel so much regret and i love A more than life itself. she means everything to me, I dont even know why I cheated on her! i just did. I literally dont know what I will do without her im afraid im going to lose her! what should I do?
CptObvious Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 (edited) lol bro you could've gotten away with it. Now you gotta live with this decision for the rest of your life. Honesty gets you nowhere my friend. We were all stupid when we were your age, so, I hope you learn your lesson and accept your fate with as much grace as possible. You're weak until you get rid of any morality you have left in you. And no, you can't repair this. Even if she's dumb enough to stick with you, everything will change. She won't trust you, and as a result she'll make life hell for you. It's over, nothing you can do can revert things. You might be able to exploit her a while for sex, but as far as a relationship goes you are SOL. And my god, if you're going to give yourself a death sentence at least do it in person. Don't give her 24 hours to think about how much of an ******* you are. There's nothing wrong with being an ******* but in this situation you're really not trying to come off as one. Edited December 22, 2012 by CptObvious
Pasttense Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 There is a better forum for this: Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy - LoveShack.org Community Forums
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