NYC-BigKat Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Um..I know thats not right but when I applied to this firm in connecticut I really wasn't serious about it u know. But now they called me yesterday for a interview on december 26 & I dont wanna go . Especially since I just got a cheaper offer much closer to me & its a small business so I called them back & said I'm gonna do it. But um, with connecticut they'r gonna pay more but I just dont wanna be bothered but I also feel so guilty about it & haven't told them anything yet. Um..also if I work the smaller business near home I cant move out 'cause it dont pay enough but its so convenient. If I was to go out to connecticut I gotta relocate. I just dont know if I'm doing right 'cause I'm scared to be stupid & make a mistake somewhere. Help .
Author NYC-BigKat Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 Um..I know thats not right but when I applied to this firm in connecticut I really wasn't serious about it u know. But now they called me yesterday for a interview on december 26 & I dont wanna go . Especially since I just got a cheaper offer much closer to me & its a small business so I called them back & said I'm gonna do it. But um, with connecticut they'r gonna pay more but I just dont wanna be bothered but I also feel so guilty about it & haven't told them anything yet. Um..also if I work the smaller business near home I cant move out 'cause it dont pay enough but its so convenient. If I was to go out to connecticut I gotta relocate. I just dont know if I'm doing right 'cause I'm scared to be stupid & make a mistake somewhere. Help . Uh..still waiting for some replies or opinions or help or anything thanks.
clia Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 You sound incredibly immature. How old are you? How many job offers have you had recently? You don't want to be "bothered" with moving out of your parents' house, so you take a lower paying job? Seriously? In the future, don't waste people's time. If you aren't interested in a job, don't apply for it. And call the company immediately and tell them you have taken another job offer and will not be able to interview with them on the 26th. (If that is indeed the case.) Sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do. 1
KungFuJoe Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 NYC-BigKat, I don't think you shouldn't not take the offer and tell them to not shove it up their asses. Or not.
FitChick Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 If you live at home with your parents and have a low paying job, you will have a handy excuse to continue complaining about why women aren't interested in you. If you move to Connecticut (which is next door to New York), you will become a more interesting person, independent, mature, with more disposable income to wine and dine women. Now that would be VERY scary for you, I know.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 You sound incredibly immature. How old are you? How many job offers have you had recently? You don't want to be "bothered" with moving out of your parents' house, so you take a lower paying job? Seriously? In the future, don't waste people's time. If you aren't interested in a job, don't apply for it. And call the company immediately and tell them you have taken another job offer and will not be able to interview with them on the 26th. (If that is indeed the case.) Sounds like you have a lot of growing up to do. Why'r u being so mean to me?! I'm only 24 & my mom likes me home 'cause I help her with alot of different stuff ok. It looks like u cant even tell me if u know anything about living in connecticut but u yet u shoot off your mouth like u do & u dont. I'm gonna wait for better replies .
Author NYC-BigKat Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 If you live at home with your parents and have a low paying job, you will have a handy excuse to continue complaining about why women aren't interested in you. If you move to Connecticut (which is next door to New York), you will become a more interesting person, independent, mature, with more disposable income to wine and dine women. Now that would be VERY scary for you, I know. Why are u making it seem like relocating is so so easy when its not ok. I'm not thinking about wining any girls right now 'cause they can wine themself. I just wanna know what others would do in my position. I dont need insults!
c57dood Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 Why are u making it seem like relocating is so so easy when its not ok. I'm not thinking about wining any girls right now 'cause they can wine themself. I just wanna know what others would do in my position. I dont need insults! If you aren't comfortable moving to Connecticut, then don't. Call the company and tell them you won't be able to make it out of courtesy. Money isn't everything, contrary to what some shallow (and probably ugly) women will tell you. 1
FitChick Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 By the time my dad was 24, he'd fought in a war, was married and had a kid on the way. I wonder what today's "man children" will do when their parents die. I blame the parents.
EasyHeart Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 By the time my dad was 24, he'd fought in a war, was married and had a kid on the way. I wonder what today's "man children" will do when their parents die. I blame the parents.But people are all different. I couldn't wait to get away from home and by the time I was 25 I had lived in 4 different states. But other people like to stay close to their roots. It's pretty obvious that the OP doesn't want to move to another state. A lot of a person's success in a career is based on attitude. If you're not excited about a new job, you shouldn't take it. It's not good for you and it's not good for the employer. 1
FitChick Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 The OP comes on here whining that women won't date him. That isn't going to change if he and his circumstances don't change. Read my signature line.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted December 25, 2012 Author Posted December 25, 2012 If you aren't comfortable moving to Connecticut, then don't. Call the company and tell them you won't be able to make it out of courtesy. Money isn't everything, contrary to what some shallow (and probably ugly) women will tell you. Thanks & I did call them back & told them that I'll come in for the interview but I already took the other job but dont start that til after new year's day. I figured why not just see what the company tells me u know 'cause maybe I wont even like the company closer to home & the company in connecticut told me that they wont be making decisions til the end of next month so lets see what happens. So um..by taking the closer job for now I dont lose out at all .
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