sopteryip Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Right all, First time I've written on here but been reading it for a while now. I'm going to just throw out what's floating around in my head recently and any replies are more than welcome. I've become really good friends with a woman recently and we now seem to socialise with each other amongst other friends every weekend. As these nights out tend to near the end, I'm always by her side and her with me. We seem to laugh at each other's antics/jokes and vice versa. The last two nights we have been out she has ended up sleeping back in my bed. Her house is on the totally opposite different side of town. The first night, it was just me and her left out late and she wanted to come home with me as she thought her friend was angry with her. The second night, we were in a group of 20 people. We both left early and she seemed easily convinced to come back to my house despite knowing it meant a taxi ride back across town the next morning. Nothing happened in bed physically but we both opened up telling each other quite personal things. I kept throwing compliments at her while she did compliment me on certain things also but not as blatantly. Her friends constantly suggest that we are getting off together but she's quite shy when they say that. We're both mid-20s btw, not kids. We just move on from that topic if its brought up. On the negative side, she constantly tells me the only guys she's attracted to are younger. (I'm older than her) Then she talks about how she hasn't kissed a guy for over two months. It's confusing me I'm sure you've read a thousand and one of these types of threads but anything feedback into her mind would be great. We're going on a trip as a group soon and didnt want to make that awkward should I have misinterpreted all of this. That said, it'd be a pretty sweet place to go one step further with her if i knew it was right. Unfortunately I think i may be friend zoned
newmoon Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 i think you're friendzoning yourself, lol. if you're in the bed with a woman you like and aren't trying anything... she's probably wondering if you're gay or not attracted to her. wasn't her 'i haven't been kissed in 2 months' an open invitation? missed opportunity there. i'm assuming she's there because she really wants to be and you should be taking some advantage of that and not talking with her so much! 2
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