Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 Hate to break it to you, but I've had relationships all over the world. I can tell you, without a doubt, you would absolutely tank in this city. There are truly beautiful women everywhere here and most of them are smart enough to know that acting like bitch is only good if you want to completely alienate yourself. You think that one cute friend of yours is causing you problems...ha!... stay in the Midwest. In any event, it looks like you've got things all worked out for yourself. Congrats on all the success you're having. Can't wait to see what you post next LOL! Thanks I look forward to an ignorant reply from you.. I'm online dating again and do you know how many guys (who are crazy hot) message me.. so goodbye All this because I don't agree with gay marriage, how shameful
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 If you're having trouble stacking up against Midwest girls' date=' then you would stand no chance against Cali girls.[/quote'] I also never said that I wanted to live in Cali.. wtf? I hate California, I have no intent to ever even go there, nor do I plan to go to NYC (another place with beautiful people) I'm perfectly fine in the Midwest and South.
KungFuJoe Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I also never said that I wanted to live in Cali.. wtf? I hate California, I have no intent to ever even go there, nor do I plan to go to NYC (another place with beautiful people) I'm perfectly fine in the Midwest and South. I don't know about anyone else, but from your posts, I already know why you can't find a man. Your personality is pretty horrible. You sound awfully immature, mean, close minded, AND stuck up...BUT you STILL want people to feel sorry for you. You have two traits that I absolutely cannot stand. -You're stuck up with a self confidence issue (yes, this is possible and more common than you'd think) -You want people to feel sorry for you. Think about those two things and try to fix them and maybe your luck will change with men.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 I don't know about anyone else, but from your posts, I already know why you can't find a man. Your personality is pretty horrible. You sound awfully immature, mean, close minded, AND stuck up...BUT you STILL want people to feel sorry for you. You have two traits that I absolutely cannot stand. -You're stuck up with a self confidence issue (yes, this is possible and more common than you'd think) -You want people to feel sorry for you. Think about those two things and try to fix them and maybe your luck will change with men. I don't want people to feel bad for me... Obviously my life is sad so I'm sorry that I am telling everyone about my sad life isn't that what this site is for..? And I'm not stuck up, but I know I'm not the ugliest person alive and I'm not gonna act like I am.
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Alright ladies..let's all relax a little. It's too cold outside:D 1
lino Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Don't know which one you are but neither girl in the photo is really a lot more attractive than the other. Both are decent looking.
lino Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 After reading more of this cringe worthy discussion, I can see your problems aren't looks related. See that really bothers me though, I am black and I like to date white guys, I don't want ugly white guys I want quality good looking white men... Why does it have to be so hard? I mean white guys should like me and I look like I could be mixed so mixed people have the ability to date whoever and I act white I like country and stuff like that I have a lot in common with white people! I shouldn't have to just date black guys because I'm black.. I don't feel any attraction to black guys What the hell is 'acting white'?!? I'm white, and you couldn't pay me to listen to country! Only mixed people can date whoever? News to me. Think I've seen it all on this site now. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 After reading more of this cringe worthy discussion, I can see your problems aren't looks related. What the hell is 'acting white'?!? I'm white, and you couldn't pay me to listen to country! Only mixed people can date whoever? News to me. Think I've seen it all on this site now. When I said mixed people can date whoever it means when you're mixed you have white guys who are attracted to you and its ok like it's not a huge deal compared to when you're black. You have the opportunity to date everyone because you have the best of both worlds, and mixed people are stunningly beautiful.
KungFuJoe Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 When I said mixed people can date whoever it means when you're mixed you have white guys who are attracted to you and its ok like it's not a huge deal compared to when you're black. You have the opportunity to date everyone because you have the best of both worlds, and mixed people are stunningly beautiful. Wow. Just. Wow.
Fondue Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 You are a light skinned black lady, which I find highly attractive. That picture only shows your face, which clearly is pretty. I don't know much of the rest of your body, but I do find your face delightful! I'd strike up a conversation with you, given the opportunity. With that said, I don't think prettier friends make dating life more difficult. At least, not for men. I love hanging out with my more attractive friends, we always seem to get more attention and are perceived to be more receptive to female advances. I find it that I get less attention when I am with my lesser attractive friends. I assume this is the same for women as well . 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 You are a light skinned black lady, which I find highly attractive. That picture only shows your face, which clearly is pretty. I don't know much of the rest of your body, but I do find your face delightful! I'd strike up a conversation with you, given the opportunity. With that said, I don't think prettier friends make dating life more difficult. At least, not for men. I love hanging out with my more attractive friends, we always seem to get more attention and are perceived to be more receptive to female advances. I find it that I get less attention when I am with my lesser attractive friends. I assume this is the same for women as well . And THIS is where the problems would start...... 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 You are a light skinned black lady, which I find highly attractive. That picture only shows your face, which clearly is pretty. I don't know much of the rest of your body, but I do find your face delightful! I'd strike up a conversation with you, given the opportunity. With that said, I don't think prettier friends make dating life more difficult. At least, not for men. I love hanging out with my more attractive friends, we always seem to get more attention and are perceived to be more receptive to female advances. I find it that I get less attention when I am with my lesser attractive friends. I assume this is the same for women as well . I never thought about that.. I guess being with pretty friends brings over hot guys so any attention is good I guess
lino Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 (edited) When I said mixed people can date whoever it means when you're mixed you have white guys who are attracted to you and its ok like it's not a huge deal compared to when you're black. You have the opportunity to date everyone because you have the best of both worlds, and mixed people are stunningly beautiful. So only mixed race people are 'stunningly beautiful'? White guys liking black girls is a huge deal but white guys liking mixed girls isn't? This is more news to me. Who made these rules up? I'm white and I don't give a sh*t what race a girl is. Is that ok with these rules or not? Edited January 14, 2013 by lino Added more to my post.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 So only mixed race people are 'stunningly beautiful'? White guys liking black girls is a huge deal but white guys liking mixed girls isn't? This is more news to me. Who made these rules up? I mean every race has pretty people but like ALL mixed people are beautiful, I've never seen an ugly one. And I made these rules, its more of a big society deal for a white guy to date a black girl than a mixed one. Almost all the white guys I have dated or come close to dating have asked if I am mixed and then told me they never dated a black girl but they only like light skinned ones. I didn't say it they did I just listen
ThaWholigan Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I mean every race has pretty people but like ALL mixed people are beautiful, I've never seen an ugly one. And I made these rules, its more of a big society deal for a white guy to date a black girl than a mixed one. Almost all the white guys I have dated or come close to dating have asked if I am mixed and then told me they never dated a black girl but they only like light skinned ones. I didn't say it they did I just listen I have. I think mixed raced people are generally very good looking too, but there are lots of unattractive people of mixed race.
lino Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I mean every race has pretty people but like ALL mixed people are beautiful, I've never seen an ugly one. And I made these rules, its more of a big society deal for a white guy to date a black girl than a mixed one. Almost all the white guys I have dated or come close to dating have asked if I am mixed and then told me they never dated a black girl but they only like light skinned ones. I didn't say it they did I just listen I've seen beautiful and ugly people of all types. Mixed and 'un-mixed' So what is the ideal ratio of the mix? 3/4 black, and 1/4 white? 50/50 to the gram? more white than black? Maybe a 3rd race thrown in? You making these silly rules is exactly why you're having problems. I know America has had big problems with racism and still does to an extent but I think most of this is just in your head. If you're only going after guys who like mixed or 'light-skinned' black girls then that's also be a big part of your problem. Why not go for open-minded guys who don't care what race a girl is? Also realise that limiting yourself to just white guys cuts out a lot of prospects for you. 1
ThaWholigan Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 I've seen beautiful and ugly people of all types. Mixed and 'un-mixed' So what is the ideal ratio of the mix? 3/4 black, and 1/4 white? 50/50 to the gram? more white than black? Maybe a 3rd race thrown in? You making these silly rules is exactly why you're having problems. I know America has had big problems with racism and still does to an extent but I think most of this is just in your head. If you're only going after guys who like mixed or 'light-skinned' black girls then that's also be a big part of your problem. Why not go for open-minded guys who don't care what race a girl is? Also realise that limiting yourself to just white guys cuts out a lot of prospects for you. Well, if she only is attracted to white guys then it's no point her trying to date other races.
lino Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Well, if she only is attracted to white guys then it's no point her trying to date other races. No problems with that, just hope she doesn't expect much sympathy when she can't find her 'white prince' Being someone who cares not about people's race but rather their character, this seems very odd to me. To rigidly go after one race and no other seems so limited. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 No problems with that, just hope she doesn't expect much sympathy when she can't find her 'white prince' Being someone who cares not about people's race but rather their character, this seems very odd to me. To rigidly go after one race and no other seems so limited. White guys are just really hot, I also really want mixed kids
TaurusTerp Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 White guys are just really hot, I also really want mixed kids Your close-mindedness and attitude is far more unattractive than your looks, as others have said. Fetishizing one particular race to the exclusion of all others is extremely pathetic, whether white dudes for asian girls or the indian dudes for white girls or your case. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 15, 2013 Author Posted January 15, 2013 Your close-mindedness and attitude is far more unattractive than your looks, as others have said. Fetishizing one particular race to the exclusion of all others is extremely pathetic, whether white dudes for asian girls or the indian dudes for white girls or your case. Well unless you have a way for me to turn on my interest to all races don't be rude and criticize with no helpful suggestions.
snowflakes88 Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 Your close-mindedness and attitude is far more unattractive than your looks, as others have said. Fetishizing one particular race to the exclusion of all others is extremely pathetic, whether white dudes for asian girls or the indian dudes for white girls or your case. No point. Anyone who would considering lying about their racial background has issues much deeper than can be addressed on a message board. 3
mortensorchid Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 Despite what others may or may not think which of the two of you (or other women friends) are the more/less attractive, this is dripping with the green monster of jealousy. Don't be one of those women who become jealous and angry at their female friends just for "being there". My sister was actually disinvited to a party a few years ago. She is a surgeon at a Midwest hospital, her first year there she went to the office Christmas party (because they were all talking about it in the weeks to come) and some of the nurses actually came up to her and said "We're not telling you to leave, but you're not invited to this party." They explained that they are all chasing after the other male doctors on staff and if she were there it might take away from their chances. She was so angry that she left the party in a huff, pulled a few strings, and got the nurses fired over that. (So don't piss off people in high places.) I also had another woman friend who said she wouldn't friend me on Facebook because it would take away from her chances of meeting men. I realized this gal was insane at that moment and didn't want anything to do with her anymore. She was more or less dumping her women friends for a man, a cardinal sin if there ever was one. 2
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 15, 2013 Author Posted January 15, 2013 No point. Anyone who would considering lying about their racial background has issues much deeper than can be addressed on a message board. I have never lied about it, I have considered it and it wouldn't be a full lie since my dad is like partially Native American which makes me mixed with something just not black and white. I wouldn't specifically say I'm mixed black and white because that would be a lie. Black women do it all the time, my best friend is like 10 shades darker than me and tells people she is Irish Indian and Asian... And even though it isn't believable at all some guys feed into it
TheZebra Posted January 15, 2013 Posted January 15, 2013 Despite what others may or may not think which of the two of you (or other women friends) are the more/less attractive, this is dripping with the green monster of jealousy. Don't be one of those women who become jealous and angry at their female friends just for "being there". My sister was actually disinvited to a party a few years ago. She is a surgeon at a Midwest hospital, her first year there she went to the office Christmas party (because they were all talking about it in the weeks to come) and some of the nurses actually came up to her and said "We're not telling you to leave, but you're not invited to this party." They explained that they are all chasing after the other male doctors on staff and if she were there it might take away from their chances. She was so angry that she left the party in a huff, pulled a few strings, and got the nurses fired over that. (So don't piss off people in high places.) I also had another woman friend who said she wouldn't friend me on Facebook because it would take away from her chances of meeting men. I realized this gal was insane at that moment and didn't want anything to do with her anymore. She was more or less dumping her women friends for a man, a cardinal sin if there ever was one. Damn other women, you scary! When I'm out with my friends I don't feel like it's competition. We're all different enough that we probably attract different guys anyway. And if we don't, we ARE attracted to different types of guys. For example, I'm attracted to light skinned guys with short, dark, straight hair. My best friend likes guys with more of an olive skin color, with curly and longish hair. In other words, you'd never see us pulling each other's hair in the middle of a crowded club over a man
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