SmileFace Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I don't get why any of you have problems with pretty friends! They help on opening doors for you! Use that to your advantage! Thank you!! This is how I see it. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 I don't get why any of you have problems with pretty friends! They help on opening doors for you! Use that to your advantage! It isn't helpful at all when a guy thinks my friend is hot and not me that's not good at all lol 1
NewRegistree Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 I'm the one on the left yes You are the one on the left? I actually thought you'd be the girl on the right because in my opinion, the girl on the left is by far prettier! I don't know you so I couldn't be saying this just to make you feel better :-) And guess what? I signed up on Loveshack just to tell you I think you are a whole lot prettier than your friend! This will probably be my one and only post.... 4
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 You are the one on the left? I actually thought you'd be the girl on the right because in my opinion, the girl on the left is by far prettier! I don't know you so I couldn't be saying this just to make you feel better :-) And guess what? I signed up on Loveshack just to tell you I think you are a whole lot prettier than your friend! This will probably be my one and only post.... Aww well thanks
Treasa Posted January 11, 2013 Posted January 11, 2013 you are the one on the left? I actually thought you'd be the girl on the right because in my opinion, the girl on the left is by far prettier! I don't know you so i couldn't be saying this just to make you feel better :-) and guess what? I signed up on loveshack just to tell you i think you are a whole lot prettier than your friend! This will probably be my one and only post.... ask her out!!
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 12, 2013 Author Posted January 12, 2013 Are you suggesting you're open to group sex with a guy and your besty? Hell no lol
La Trese Posted January 12, 2013 Posted January 12, 2013 You both look equally pretty...I couldn't even tell which one was you. And I feel like being the second prettiest friend is the best. I have a group of girls...my best friend is gorgeous. And I also think I am very pretty but my friend literally looks like a barbie. I usually get asked out the most out of everyone in our group.. It could be personality too...i'm a lot friendlier, my other pretty friends for some reason are less confident, and my gorgeous friend is really high maintenance. But it also could be that guys are too intimidated by the prettiest one and go for the second prettiest one. So don't let it get you down 1
Leigh 87 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Which one are you? The dark skinned or other? Your both pretty!!!! Honestly, one is not way prettier than the other at all! And I have better looking friends too; yet I still have had guys have mroe interest in ME! Because once they get talking, they prefer me. 1
Leigh 87 Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 I'm the one on the left yes What the hell? dude, your JUST as pretty as your friend...... No one is perfect! You put her on a pedestall to be honest. I am being VERY honest! She has great facial structure, but her eyes, nose, and lips are not ideal. I personally find her gorgeous, but I am just going on scientific studies that measure attractiveness, based on thousands and thousands of peoples opinions...... You know - I have been called stunning by a few people; yet many guys do not even find me to be attractive! The same could be said about your friend! Depending on the area your in and the different types of peopple your around, not EVERY ONE is going to find her to be stunningly beautiful. The group of men I know of in my area would not find her attractive really; they like tanned chicks with small noses, that sort of women.... DOn't ask me why, but they really dig chicks with smaller noses. It is a certain pattern among some men. What I am more worried about is your attitude.... You could stand next to very attractive people all day every day, and you STILL have the ability to captivate men. You are still quiet pretty! I am CERTAIN that your VERY attractive to quiet a lot of men, too! 1
ascendotum Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 (edited) Cute vs cute. pff. How long has it been since a guy came up and flirted with you that you have such a ruined love life? 2 weeks? You are both very attractive, so you need to get a grip....you could have been born plain...OMG! It wont be long before your friend is off the market and you will be the centre of attention, but plenty of guys will be smitten with your smile straight of, as I am sure you have experienced, but maybe you think the ones that focus on her are the hotter ones, so you think you are getting the 2nd besters. The difference is not that much whereby many guys who would initially focus on her would easily find you more attractive if your pretty friend is any sort of aloof, drama queen, whoohoo girl, vapid, etc type girl once they got talking to her. I am sure majority of people here have more attractive friends who they are a little bit jealous of, and likely you have a friend who thinks that of you. Edited January 13, 2013 by ascendotum
Aedra Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 (edited) I'm sorry but you're actually very attractive. Your friend is quite pretty too, yes, but you need to stop feeling so ugly because you don't know what ugly is lol. In 9th grade I was rated 3rd ugliest girl in my class out of the 15 girls there. I had severe acne, was moderately overweight and guys would tease me because of how big my ass was. It didn't help some of my friends were actually models and it only contrasted how ugly I was. You're stunning and you should enjoy it. Edited January 14, 2013 by Aedra
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 You'll land a white man soon enough (that's what you're after, right?) The only reason it could take a little longer than you'd like is just because there is still that slight cultural barrier there. But again, you look great, so it's really just a matter of time. Keep your head up, chick. 1
monicaelise Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Having pretty friends doesn't ruin dating. Having an unattractive personality does.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 Having pretty friends doesn't ruin dating. Having an unattractive personality does. You would know are you single too? I never said I wasn't approached by men
monicaelise Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 You would know are you single too? I never said I wasn't approached by men Well dear girl, I have been married, and I have had children. Moreover, I have had nice, long healthy relationships with men who actually like me (and still do). In thirty years, I have never had difficulty finding or keeping a man. You, on the other hand, seen to have difficulty securing even one partner. Like many "grown up" women, I know what the pitfalls of a relationship are and no longer have an interest in being a part of one. If this changes, I guarantee you I will have no problem finding a man. You're not even in the game, and you are a cute enough girl. Maybe instead of wasting all that energy poking holes at everyone around you and turning fifty shades of green with jealousy, you should do a little personal inventory and try to figure out why an otherwise cute, reasonably literate young woman is having such a wretched go of it when it comes to finding even one man. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 Well dear girl, I have been married, and I have had children. Moreover, I have had nice, long healthy relationships with men who actually like me (and still do). In thirty years, I have never had difficulty finding or keeping a man. You, on the other hand, seen to have difficulty securing even one partner. Like many "grown up" women, I know what the pitfalls of a relationship are and no longer have an interest in being a part of one. If this changes, I guarantee you I will have no problem finding a man. You're not even in the game, and you are a cute enough girl. Maybe instead of wasting all that energy poking holes at everyone around you and turning fifty shades of green with jealousy, you should do a little personal inventory and try to figure out why an otherwise cute, reasonably literate young woman is having such a wretched go of it when it comes to finding even one man. What you obviously do not realize is that I can find one man, I have found numerous men that doesn't mean I want to date those particular men. I don't need to do any inventory on a damn thing look at me.
monicaelise Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 What you obviously do not realize is that I can find one man, I have found numerous men that doesn't mean I want to date those particular men. I don't need to do any inventory on a damn thing look at me. LOL What you do not realize is that it just that attitude that keeps you from getting the men you want or think you deserve. I have looked at you. You are cute, but you are definitely in no position to be calling the shots. You are not ugly, but you are not "all that" and you really do need to evaluate the way you see yourself and others. You're going to get old and that cute will fade, then all that will be left is the attitude. Bitter, jealous, self-righteous old women do not do well in the dating world. You're definitely not "hot" enough to pull of the attitude you're walking around with. Very few people could. 2
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 LOL What you do not realize is that it just that attitude that keeps you from getting the men you want or think you deserve. I have looked at you. You are cute, but you are definitely in no position to be calling the shots. You are not ugly, but you are not "all that" and you really do need to evaluate the way you see yourself and others. You're going to get old and that cute will fade, then all that will be left is the attitude. Bitter, jealous, self-righteous old women do not do well in the dating world. You're definitely not "hot" enough to pull of the attitude you're walking around with. Very few people could. Haha and you think you're hot? Yeah right Anyways that is why I intend on pulling a guy now while I'm still hot.. Don't worry about me, you worry about yourself and why you're 50 and single
TheZebra Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 turning fifty shades of green with jealousy, :lmao: Monicaelise wins this thread. I'm turning fifty shades of red laughing right now
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 :lmao: Monicaelise wins this thread. I'm turning fifty shades of red laughing right now She absolutely doesn't win **** actually. wtf
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 I'm sorry but you're actually very attractive. Your friend is quite pretty too, yes, but you need to stop feeling so ugly because you don't know what ugly is lol. In 9th grade I was rated 3rd ugliest girl in my class out of the 15 girls there. I had severe acne, was moderately overweight and guys would tease me because of how big my ass was. It didn't help some of my friends were actually models and it only contrasted how ugly I was. You're stunning and you should enjoy it. Kids are mean but like I wasn't super pretty in HS, a lot of my other friends were like stunning now they are fat and gross lol
monicaelise Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Haha and you think you're hot? Yeah right Anyways that is why I intend on pulling a guy now while I'm still hot.. Don't worry about me, you worry about yourself and why you're 50 and single ROFLMAO!! Well the evidence says otherwise. I'm not here whining about not being able to find a man and I am 100% certain I've seen a lot more action than you from men that are so far out of your "league" you could only dream about having them look your way. More importantly, I will continue to. Not because I'm "hot", not because my friends are/aren't pretty, not because I "put out", but because I know my place in the world and I understand that I should at least try to be decent to my fellow humans. I also know that when I'm failing at something, the onus is on me. You keep failing because you're looking in all the wrong places for the source of your failure. Trust me, I'm giving you solid advice. You are not hot, you are cute, but you have a terrible attitude. Men don't like bitchy women. Men don't like attitude. Men do like attractive, approachable, women who know their place in the world. Again, it's not your friends or OLD or anything else, that's getting in the way of you finding what you want. It's you. 1
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 ROFLMAO!! Well the evidence says otherwise. I'm not here whining about not being able to find a man and I am 100% certain I've seen a lot more action than you from men that are so far out of your "league" you could only dream about having them look your way. More importantly, I will continue to. Not because I'm "hot", not because my friends are/aren't pretty, not because I "put out", but because I know my place in the world and I understand that I should at least try to be decent to my fellow humans. I also know that when I'm failing at something, the onus is on me. You keep failing because you're looking in all the wrong places for the source of your failure. Trust me, I'm giving you solid advice. You are not hot, you are cute, but you have a terrible attitude. Men don't like bitchy women. Men don't like attitude. Men do like attractive, approachable, women who know their place in the world. Again, it's not your friends or OLD or anything else, that's getting in the way of you finding what you want. It's you. It's not me, there is nothing wrong with me, I might be mean or bitchy or whatever on here but I'm not in real life and if you don't know me you can't say a damn thing... Guys in San Diego are obviously desperate AF thats why you get guys... believe me I'm like 40 years younger than you I'm sure I could pull better quality of men. If not oh well I'm doing what the hell I want to be doing right now.
Author ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 14, 2013 Author Posted January 14, 2013 I don't even want to argue about myself anymore like wtf... I am a bitch because I don't have a guy, if I had a guy I would have no reason to be mad, jaded, bitter, and pissed off.. Unless you're finding me a guy, have several seats.
monicaelise Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 Hate to break it to you, but I've had relationships all over the world. I can tell you, without a doubt, you would absolutely tank in this city. There are truly beautiful women everywhere here and most of them are smart enough to know that acting like bitch is only good if you want to completely alienate yourself. You think that one cute friend of yours is causing you problems...ha!... stay in the Midwest. In any event, it looks like you've got things all worked out for yourself. Congrats on all the success you're having. Can't wait to see what you post next LOL!
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