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I'm sure she was quite satisfactory to the wealthy clients who employed her, though I'm not sure I would term it 'dating', since she was paid. That said, had she wanted to have an unpaid affair, there's no doubt that there would be many takers. The 'washed up after xxx age' IMO is largely a LS thing. I see little evidence to support it in real life. Dynamics change, sure, but that's true about anything life as we age. I can only wonder what the thread would have gone like if she had brought her story here.

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It seems a lot of men are willing to pay, and pay a lot, to "date" this woman.

 

A bizarre and sad story.

 

Nevertheless, all the smart guys (ahem) know full well that women don't even hit their prime until they reach their 40s. 48, say.

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She's a 44 year old who's in better shape than 2/3rds of 15 year olds.

 

The shocking thing to me is she was and I assume is married while she was doing this? Her husband must be superfly.

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I wonder why did she do this as she doesn't seem to need the money. Perhaps she's into it, a little Belle de Jour type or something similar.

 

Belle de Jour (film) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

Only fools don't see how (normal, not necessarily celebrities) 40s yo can be gorgeous. Evolution and modernity changed things. We don't look like our great-grandmothers did at this age.

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Lol some of the hottest guys Ive known had fetishes for mature women more than younger ones. It always surprised me because of all the stuff I read online. These men didn't have to pay for it though.

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She might have been popular because of the new sex act she invented...the "pole vault".

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My guess would be marriage issues, and having a hard time dealing with the fact that her career is at an end.

 

I was drawn to escorting in large part because it provided many coping mechanisms for me when I was going through a very challenging time with my marriage and my life. It provided an escape from a life that I was struggling in. It was a double life.

 

Hamilton said her husband knew of her escort work, but did not support it and asked her to stop.

 

Asked, really.......

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The 'washed up after xxx age' IMO is largely a LS thing. I see little evidence to support it in real life.

 

That's really the only reason I posted the thread. Gee, all those rich men could have had a hot 20-something hooker yet they chose a washed up middle-aged woman.

 

Her husband knew about her exploits. Perhaps he gets off on men paying his wife for sex because it validates that she is a hot woman and he owns her. She found it exciting, which is probably the case for a lot of expensive call girls.

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Her husband knew about her exploits. Perhaps he gets off on men paying his wife for sex because it validates that she is a hot woman and he owns her. She found it exciting, which is probably the case for a lot of expensive call girls.

 

This has to be a part of it. There is a whole genre of porn where a supposedly married couple comes in, and the husband gets his jollies as his wife is done by several other men. (Often with an interracial dimension thrown in for extra spice.)

 

:cool:

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This has to be a part of it.

 

I don't think it has. It could. She is hot enough for men to want her without it being a fetish.

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This has to be a part of it. There is a whole genre of porn where a supposedly married couple comes in, and the husband gets his jollies as his wife is done by several other men. (Often with an interracial dimension thrown in for extra spice.)

 

:cool:

Hah! You know how many white women online have emailed me for that? :lmao:

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I wonder why did she do this as she doesn't seem to need the money. Perhaps she's into it, a little Belle de Jour type or something similar.

 

Belle de Jour (film) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

Only fools don't see how (normal, not necessarily celebrities) 40s yo can be gorgeous. Evolution and modernity changed things. We don't look like our great-grandmothers did at this age.

 

Funny enough, i saw that movie recently ... quite interesting.

 

Maybe she wanted lots of male validation.

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I was drawn to escorting in large part because it provided many coping mechanisms for me when I was going through a very challenging time with my marriage and my life.

 

Sounds like the marriage issues preceded the prostitution.

 

Of course women over 40 are desirable, if they are fit and sexy. Fit and sexy of women of any age are desirable. Just like fit and sexy men! :) I'd take a hot 50 year old over a pasty, flabby, play-video-games-all-day 25 year old guy.

 

Women who are defending women over 40.....do you insult men over 40? Call them out of shape and old looking?

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That's really the only reason I posted the thread. Gee, all those rich men could have had a hot 20-something hooker yet they chose a washed up middle-aged woman.

 

Her husband knew about her exploits. Perhaps he gets off on men paying his wife for sex because it validates that she is a hot woman and he owns her. She found it exciting, which is probably the case for a lot of expensive call girls.

 

 

I think it would be better explained that the majority of upscale rich men, have an education, a brain, and have knowledge that dating a 20 year old that is the same age as their own children is embarrasing and will become the butt of jokes to their peers, men and women or they need more of a challenge and there are plenty of women closer to their age who are still lookers, have worldly knowledge in which they can share time with.

I have been surprised to have witnessed many men in their 50s, extremely wealthy, and due to circumstances of being widowed, you would think or wonder if they are going to become playboys and date an 18 year old. Surprisingly enough they did not and actually formed relationships with women closer to their age and of the same caliber.

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There's a big difference between being willing to sleep with and/or casually date someone, and seeing them as a potential LTR.

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Proably more becasue of the novelty of it..while shes in amazing shape that is face only a mother can love

 

As far as the older women thing no trait is 100% universal one way or the other but lets also not play stupid certain traits that are uncontrollable are not as attractive to the general population

 

Poll all women and 90 something neprcent wil say they PREFER a tall man and youll likely get the same answer from men reagrding women age it is what it is doesnt mean you outliers of atractivness cant find somebody whos attracted to you

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This is what I was getting at. Many of these guys that bash the older women on here say that they are older themselves. I don't know. I do know that a lot of posters on here take these bashing threads to heart.

 

Lol, late 20's with the maturity level of a 15 year old, is not older.

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How many threads do you see by older women bashing older men or going on about how much better younger are?

 

I see quite a few threads that have a negative slant towards older women. I see quite a few posts saying some very nasty things about 35+ older women. Sometimes I see older women saying they're not attracted to older men. More often than not, I see women defending older men if these older men get attacked because of their looks.

 

I made that comment because I've seen some of the same women defend women over 40, and bash men over 40. I thought it was ironic.

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I'm surprised they haven't invaded this thread yet. They probably know they will be eaten alive.

 

They probably know cougars are very veracious and that they can't stand up to that. :D

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I am attracted to men my age and older, but usually if they took care of themselves and still look cute and presentable (they don't have to look muscular, or hot, or anything like that). A lot of men seem to think only women have to keep looking good as they mature and don't take care of their appearance.

 

I made that comment because I've seen some of the same women defend women over 40, and bash men over 40. I thought it was ironic.
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That lady is super hot so 40 or not who cares! Lol

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To each his own im extremely attracted to older women

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They probably know cougars are very veracious and that they can't stand up to that. :D

 

this bugs me, ask the "cougar" herself for sex based on her maturity, ask kim catrall, i am "cougar"-material but i say no thanx to being expected to be screwed and dumped

 

kim, c'mon show us all how a reeeaall woman sucks dick lol

she messed up us women

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Hah! You know how many white women online have emailed me for that? :lmao:

 

A slightly larger number than have emailed me for that. (Seriously the kind of person I am is so fetishized by others I almost can't OLD for a relationship.)

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