nate7809 Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 So, I started a new job a few weeks ago and began with a training session with an attractive young lady. For the first few days we talked a little since we sat next to each other and one day, in the middle of the week, I asked her if she wanted to get some Mexican food for lunch, in a casual type of way. She didn't since she said she didn't like Mexican food and so I didn't really do anything else ( i did mention another place but I don't know if she heard me). Anyhow, since then she has started acting a bit different. Whenever I see her she smiles big at me and waves, and when she leaves she does the same thing. Also she has been joking around with me and writing me e-mails back and forth at work. So, what do you all think? I know inter-office relationships can be bad, but I have no reason to ever see or talk to her during the day, simply due to our positioning. Any advice? Should I ask her out? Other than the e-mails I don't really get to talk to her any at work.
BurningBright Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 Go for it! Ask her out. Since she has starting smiling, waving, and therefore acknowledging you are there.. it's a good sign she was flattered by your offer, and could very well be wishing you would ask her out again. Since you don't see each other often at work, if a relationship did form, it wouldn't be as tough as others (with the relationship/work scene). Not to say some work related “issues” could not come up. You both would have to talk about this. And hey, even if a relationship doesn't strike up.. at least you took a coworker out, and hopefully made a great friend. ~BurningBright
honey2005 Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 I agree, you don't see her much, so if you do get together, then things don't work out, you don't have to worry about running into her at work and feeling akward.
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