itsmakaela Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Me and my ex were on almost one week of NC but he Texted me at 3:22pm saying "aye" . I didn't respond until 11:38pm saying "sorry I was busy! What's up :)" Did I mess up.... What does this mean..
esgirl101 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 I'm no expert, and actually clueless when it comes to why exes act the way they sometimes do. To me, sounds like a little nudge for attention. Either that, or he was texting in response to someone else and sent to you by mistake, or the classic pretending to accidentally text trick. Whatever his reason, CONGRATULATIONS on your response. You were friendly, civil, and telling him you were busy shows he is not priority to you. He may not text back, he may well do, but whatever the case it will have nothing to do with YOU as you responded in the best possible way. No Contact is a killer, going through it myself and in week 4. Keep strong!
movingon12 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 It means nothing. He was checking to see if you'd respond. You did. And now you're sitting there waiting for him to reply. Next time, don't respond. At all. No contact means no contact. Do not reply, you'll move on faster. Promise.
Samilia Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Me and my ex were on almost one week of NC but he Texted me at 3:22pm saying "aye" . I didn't respond until 11:38pm saying "sorry I was busy! What's up :)" Did I mess up.... What does this mean.. Yes... yes yes you did Means nothing, he wanted to see if you'd answer, even though you have a wall up, and you did.
cavalier99 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Yes... yes yes you did Means nothing, he wanted to see if you'd answer, even though you have a wall up, and you did. Agreed total screw up if your NC. You know how i know? Because you feel like **** right now for hours or days after being happy for 1 FULL minute about getting a text. NC isnt a game it is a fight for your survival and sanity after a breakup. Good luck don't cave again or you'll feel like crap.
Author itsmakaela Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 The funny part is that I'm not even expecting a text back, I knew I wasn't gonna het one back and I'm actually really happy I mean I want my ex back but as it stands right now, I'm really happy without as well.
beyond Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Me and my ex were on almost one week of NC but he Texted me at 3:22pm saying "aye" . I didn't respond until 11:38pm saying "sorry I was busy! What's up :)" Did I mess up.... What does this mean.. "aye"........seriously! If this were the man of my dreams and we were engaged to be married and blissfully happy, I wouldn't respond to "aye".
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