Emissary Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 So there's this cute girl I often serve at work, we've both been working at the mall for years now and always get along, often having small conversations while I fill out her orders. I've sort of had a crush on her for maybe half a year, I always thought she was cute, but only recently actually took the idea of her seriously. Today I finally got the courage to at least exchange names for starters to which she happily obliged. After she left to go back to her workplace, one of my co-workers started laughing, saying I was so obvious there that she can't help cracking up. I'm not sure if I was really THAT obvious, the question did kind of come out of nowhere, and while I made it obvious I'm interested in knowing a bit more about who she is, I'm not sure it really expressed where I want to go with that.
Weezy1973 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Obvious is good. There is really no reason to play it coy. In fact, next time just be entirely obvious. "I think you're cute and would like to get to know you better. Would you like to grab a hot chocolate after work?" Or something like that. If you're feeling nervous or are afraid of rejection it means you're doing something right. 1
movingon12 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Agree - if you asked for her name it's obvious you like her and that is a good thing. If she starts acting cool towards you that's a sign she doesn't want you to go any further, but if she continues to be friendly it's a good sign that she would be open to the idea of a date (assuming she's not in a relationship already).
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