Sammy_1991 Posted December 21, 2012 Share Posted December 21, 2012 My first post here after my first breakup – and don’t wanna keep leaning on friends for support – so here is my story (short version ;p) I was seeing this lovely girl – she is 18 and am 21 – and had been in a relationship for the past year and a half – living together for the past year. She was my first love and I her second (her first only lasted 1.5 months) and we did practically everything together. All our friends/family thought we would be getting married – and so did she – she talked about it all the time. Due to her first relationship she was slightly insecure and didn’t think she was good enough for me (he was a nasty bloke) – and kept checking my phone/fb etc (she didn’t think I knew) She moved to a different city 2h away due to her job (office relocation) and had to get a room in a houseshare. Now the guy there developed a huge crush on her and did everything he could to cause problems – and she ended up cancelling on me and spending time with him (including in his room to play on his xbox with closed doors). Within 3 weeks I was getting rather mad at this and we had a huge fight – and I ended up breaking up with her. I just found it hard to trust her doing these kind of things daily. I was a real mess for a week so I leaned on my close friends for support – and they did help me get through it always telling me she was wrong – I went NC. After about 3 weeks one of my female friends tells me to just give her a ring see how shes doing – no reply. After 2 more weeks I find out from someone that shes now sleeping with a close m8 that I have had for 6 years – and that he was the one that initiated it 2 weeks after the breakup – this was 1 week ago This has really set me back and I am having a hard time dealing with it Link to post Share on other sites
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