na49 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 (hopefully ) Alright, well I got my closure earlier today. My ex sent me a text saying "I know we broke up on bad terms but I'd like to be friends" Yeahhhh sure. I'm glad we want to work on a relationship between us AFTER you dump me. Get outta here! Well obviously there's no false hopes or anything anymore, she's guilty, she wants to be my friend. I don't want to relieve her of her guilt or be her friend. While I hope she'll give up and leave me alone, I do enjoy the attention from her. Blocking her number is probably the only thing left to do now. Will she know that I've blocked it? (not that I care if she does, I think it'd be a real shot to her ego if she does) It'll be weird, but should feel good to know I will NEVER hear from this person again. Definitely not as reluctant to block it as I was earlier this week lol. This should be a done deal soon, she'll keep pestering me to be friends until she gives up, or I block it and be finished with her. Hmmmmm
cavalier99 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 (edited) I tested the block with my ex in the days before BU. On verizon she will receive automated message that makes it clear her call cant go thru. Texts disappear into oblivion. There is no undeliverable message that she will receive. You just dont get the text. Can you handle this? Lol you got your ego boost. Now is time to boost it on your.own! Edited December 21, 2012 by cavalier99
Author na49 Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 I definitely can handle it and will feel better after it's done. Just getting it done is taking longer than it should lol Wow an automated message from Verizon. That'll be a nice last kick in the shins before she leaves me alone for good.
Author na49 Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 Seriously wondering if she'll just give up and leave me alone. I guess she won't be able to until she eases her guilt lol.
Author na49 Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 No she hasn't, I'm wondering if she will but it's not killing me to know or anything. (I was also looking for a reason to bump this thread lol) Her attempts to be "civil" and get me to come running because she knows I'm a good guy haven't been working. She's trying to sound nice and two months ago I probably would've responded. I've learned a lot though. I know her well enough to think her next attempt to get a reaction out of me will be to insult me. She knows I can get pretty hot when I get angry.
Chi townD Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 Well, here's the thing. You've been coming on here and listening to people and I believe that folks have been right on the money as far as what to expect from her. And you've gotten to a point where you can see it coming too. BUT!!! You know it's coming and you can now laugh at it rather and get angry over it.
Author na49 Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 Of course, nothing she says would really insult me. I think it's funny how she wants to work on everything now. AFTER dumping me and acting so poorly towards me. I've been enjoying me a lot more lately, and I really just wish I'd go ahead and block her number already so I can be done with this. I'm right there, ready to block it. Just have to go through with it. It's probably because I like the attention from her, to know she's thinking of me enough to go ahead and take time to text me that is keeping me from blocking her. Not even clinging on to false hope or anything anymore, she got rid of all of that for me yesterday and gave me my closure.
Author na49 Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 It's so silly how blocking her number has become such an episode (completely my own doing ). I really just want to get it over with lol. I shouldn't need ego boosts from ignoring her texts, there will be a nice ego boost I won't even know about the first time she tries to text or call me after her number is blocked. It's annoying to think she feels like she can just throw me in the friend zone after how she treated me. Doesn't acknowledge what she did wrong, just says "we ended on bad terms" I hate her so much now lol, as lonely as I feel at times I find myself wanting her back less and less. I've also pretty much gotten rid of my false senses of hope of her coming back. She's not, and that's fine with me. I can do much better than her.
cavalier99 Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 It's so silly how blocking her number has become such an episode (completely my own doing ). I really just want to get it over with lol. I shouldn't need ego boosts from ignoring her texts, there will be a nice ego boost I won't even know about the first time she tries to text or call me after her number is blocked. It's annoying to think she feels like she can just throw me in the friend zone after how she treated me. Doesn't acknowledge what she did wrong, just says "we ended on bad terms" I hate her so much now lol, as lonely as I feel at times I find myself wanting her back less and less. I've also pretty much gotten rid of my false senses of hope of her coming back. She's not, and that's fine with me. I can do much better than her. Your going to recover from your ex no problem! ....but may need years of counseling about this blocking number hang up 1
Author na49 Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 Very true, I got my closure. I don't need to get a text from her that says something like "I love you" or "I miss you" to mess with my head and get me back to playing twenty questions. This will be such a relief once I get it over with. Getting it over with is taking too long
Samilia Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 (hopefully ) Alright, well I got my closure earlier today. My ex sent me a text saying "I know we broke up on bad terms but I'd like to be friends" Yeahhhh sure. I'm glad we want to work on a relationship between us AFTER you dump me. Get outta here! Well obviously there's no false hopes or anything anymore, she's guilty, she wants to be my friend. I don't want to relieve her of her guilt or be her friend. While I hope she'll give up and leave me alone, I do enjoy the attention from her. Blocking her number is probably the only thing left to do now. Will she know that I've blocked it? (not that I care if she does, I think it'd be a real shot to her ego if she does) It'll be weird, but should feel good to know I will NEVER hear from this person again. Definitely not as reluctant to block it as I was earlier this week lol. This should be a done deal soon, she'll keep pestering me to be friends until she gives up, or I block it and be finished with her. Hmmmmm I'm not sure what you're trying to accomplish here, who cares if she knows you blocked it, just block it. Or are you hoping it will jump start her love for you?
Author na49 Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 I'm not sure what you're trying to accomplish here, who cares if she knows you blocked it, just block it. Or are you hoping it will jump start her love for you? Not really trying to accomplish much. Just have to go ahead and do it. It's got nothing to do with her at this point. She hasn't had love for me for a while which I understand by now.
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