NeeN Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Its been 2 months since we broke up. The relationship was not an easy one. He was ridiculously insecure and the more he tried to shove me into his perfect wife mould, the more i freaked out. I never cheated, mostly felt that everything i did was never good enough. The relationship became more abusive towards the end so i know my decision to end it was a wise one. But now the feeling of faillure and the second guessing myselc are taking over.... not only do i have constant reminders of him but j cant sleep a full night. My dreams are plagued by him. I am desperate for closure... really desperate
Mcnulty Posted December 22, 2012 Posted December 22, 2012 The guy was an ansolute nutjob. You so dodged a big bullet. Closure will come from within..in time. Have patience and build that bridge every day...baby steps. Do you think you were/are a codependent?
Author NeeN Posted December 22, 2012 Author Posted December 22, 2012 I havent had much luck in tbe relationship dprtmnt. Never really opened up. This was the first time i have allowed myself to open up completly. Alot of good that did me. Lol I try everyday to grow stronger, i need to constantly remind myself of the bad times and how they exceeded the good by far. Thank u for the support.
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