michael21 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 (edited) About 2 months ago now, my fiance broke up with me. We were together for just about 10 years (since we were 16). Her reason was that she thought we we loved each other but were not in love... To sum it up I have been devastated ever since, I have had ups and downs and everything in between. I have seen her twice since the breakup, once we went to the movies together (about 2 weeks ago). This was very hard on both of us because it ended with us both siting in the car crying and she expressed how when she saw my face she thought we would be forever. She also said "I love you" out of nowhere. After that night, things have been worse for me, I keep dreaming about her again and have been sleeping way too much. Here is the main question, on the day we broke up she suggested that we only see each other 6 months later for a "first date" and to see what happens from there. We kind of both pushed that aside (obviously because we saw each other). I really do want her back despite how much this has hurt, I have been very strong (not expressing sadness when we talk etc.) The way I figure it I have 3 options; 1. to keep LC like we are doing, improve myself and see if we get back together, 2. To suggest that the 6 month date is a good idea and do that, or 3 go as NC as possible to let her miss me and for me to heal. Any suggestions? Edited December 20, 2012 by michael21
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