ReadMyThread Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Okay so I have been doing better since the past. Not fully healed but doing better. Should I continue asking girls out on dates? I have already asked two girls since my ex and they both said yes. The dates went good with both of the girls, had a good time, never think of my ex while im on these dates, but one of the girls I just wasn't interested in anymore and the other girl isn't ready for a relationship. Me and the second girl have gone on like 5 dates and have had sex like 4 times. I really like her but I know we wouldn't ever be together so I guess just we are nothing but sex lol. But heres where my question comes in. It kind of hurt me after I realized that it wouldn't work with both of these girls. I guess I just want someone. It bothers me that me ex left me for another guy and now they are doing everything that me and her use to do and here I am all miserable with nobody. I don't NEED a girl but it's always better to have one and I want one. They said you usually fully get over your ex when you find happyness in your life again. Well to be honest, I'd be happy if I had someone. When I began having sex with that second it REALLY helped me not think about my ex so much and it really helped my self-esteem and confidence. I was so happy the day after the first time we had sex. Life seems good again until I realized we wouldn't work out. People tell me just stop looking for love and worry about yourself and love will come to you when you least expect it. It hurts me when I go on a date and realize it won't work but if it were to go good and realized it would work with a girl I really liked, It would be better for me. I would love that. So should I continue asking girls out? Hurting myself when I realize it won't workout? Taking the risk of actually getting lucky and meeting someone I really like and hoping it would be more? Or should I just give up on dating and let some girl in the future come to me. Ugh. I hate this.
TouchedByViolet Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I have always had to put effort to get a girl, never had one fall in my lap. So I would say keep putting yourself out there and hope for the best. It's a numbers game, some of us just have crappy odds, but eventually it will work out. 1
Author ReadMyThread Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 I have always had to put effort to get a girl, never had one fall in my lap. So I would say keep putting yourself out there and hope for the best. It's a numbers game, some of us just have crappy odds, but eventually it will work out. Yeah I'm sure there is some effort you have to put into it but it seems every girl I have ever been with has persued me. Therefore I'm not use to going out and asking girls out. Now that I am and have done it twice but seen it wouldn't work, it hurts. I'm not use to this. This game sucks! Lol.
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