Time to vent

[jags2bowl27]

So its a day after telling my ex that i split from the girl that she was a little jealous over. The new girl was great but i knew I moved too fast and she was becoming hooked. I spit because it was the right thing to do, but after telling the ex and her saying, "I really appreciate you coming to tell me first" and in the same breath her saying "But i am not ready right now.." Ive gone bonkers. I feel as if she should be running back my way after we both agreed it was fixable. Ive had it and im venting lol.

 

I put the ball in her court one more time and now its time. Not going to ignore because like i said, communication was our problem, but im beginning to sense she wants me as a back up and it isnt fair, not after the 2 years we had. She writes all this stuff about how i am the one, and how we were meant to be and then she doesnt come running.

 

Next time she calls, im telling her its me or the other guy. I dont care anymore. I made an effort to fix things and its her choice. I will not speak to her unless she is ready to commit and in the meantime, im moving on

[na49]

You don't have to tell her, show her. Ignore her and if she doesn't come running you know her choice wasn't you.

[jags2bowl27]

here is what im afraid of... we sat down and talked about communication and how to make it better. I feel as if I ignore her and not do it the mature way with talking it out, im going to be the reason why she doesnt come running.

 

Do you understand where im coming from. Her #1 thing that gets her is being ignored. I know the immature person would say dude, duh then ignore her but thats not the right answer right?

 

Please someone that has been in my shoes give me some insight on this.

[Benp]

Still, women are strange. If you show that you want her back more than she does, then good luck! It has always been a game, you either take it slow and follow the game plan or you'll fail and fail and fail.