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I ended it with this girl after a year of talking because she was treating me like an option & like crap. So I told her to not contact me unless she wants to make this work. So I went a day without talking to her, but then she calls me out of nowhere. I call her back to see what she wants & she says that her friend wants to speak to me, but then her friend said she was lying & that SHE wanted to speak to me. I then said "Um, okay what do yall want?" And they said "Damn, it's like that?" & hung up. I texted her saying "Ok?".. I just want to know, why did she call when I told her not to? Could she still be interested? Should I try talking to her or wait for her to talk to me again.

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I ended it with this girl after a year of talking because she was treating me like an option & like crap. So I told her to not contact me unless she wants to make this work. So I went a day without talking to her, but then she calls me out of nowhere. I call her back to see what she wants & she says that her friend wants to speak to me, but then her friend said she was lying & that SHE wanted to speak to me. I then said "Um, okay what do yall want?" And they said "Damn, it's like that?" & hung up. I texted her saying "Ok?".. I just want to know, why did she call when I told her not to? Could she still be interested? Should I try talking to her or wait for her to talk to me again.

 

 

 

wait for her to call again....tell her you arent in to silly little phone games and if she wants to be serious thats the only time you want to talk to her......dont let her mess you around.....good luck...deb

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So you decided you wanted to be here puppet still? Why are you still talking to her again? I thought you were over being treated like crap. You don't tell her to contact you period. She has no interest in making it work, shes not interested other than that you keep running back when ever she throws out a piece of string.

 

Or as I said you can continue being miserable and being used for her amusement.

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She called again, I answered. She didn't talk to me, but was talking to her friend about other guys & what not. Then she asked me how I've been. I asked her why she called & told her "You know what I said yesterday. Don't talk to me unless you want to work things out". Then I said "So do you have something to say?". She said no & I said "Well ima let you go" & then we hung up.. Did I do the right thing?

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She called again, I answered. She didn't talk to me, but was talking to her friend about other guys & what not. Then she asked me how I've been. I asked her why she called & told her "You know what I said yesterday. Don't talk to me unless you want to work things out". Then I said "So do you have something to say?". She said no & I said "Well ima let you go" & then we hung up.. Did I do the right thing?

 

Parts in bold stop doing that, don't answer phone calls and don't say for her to only call you if shes interested in making things work she isn't and you are just giving her an excuse to harass you.

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So ignore her calls & texts. For how long?

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Until you can stop thinking you are going to get back together and have moved on, even then I probably wouldn't contact her or respond.

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i agree with carenth.

don't answer to her. period. and don't initiate contact with her either.

it seems like she's just been keeping you as her toy that helps her self esteem honestly. i hate saying that and feel like an ******* even to say it, but that's what her behavior is pointing to.

 

you giving her the ultimatum probably hurt her ego and might have scared her to lose you and her calling you is her testing those boundaries to see if you'd still give her the response and attention that she wants.

 

i would really just stop talking to her and just move on. it just seems like feelings are gonna get hurt one way or another.

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