How do I handle this????

[babygirl21]

Hello everyone,I have this problem and I fell like I'm just stuck at a particular spot.So here goes the story.I am interested in this guy (T.) and by his signals he is interested in me to.But he is a little on the shy side I think so he hasn't really asked me out or for my phone number yet.I also went to school with this guy and while we were in school this guy (one of his friends)we will call him D.Well D. sad that T. wanted my phone number but I thought that D ways picking so I never did give T. my number.Well if I thought that D. wasn't joking around I would have given T. my number.Ok so now T. is back in my life and like I said from the signals he's sending he is interested in me and same for me.So I feel that T. and I are suppose to be together because the lord up above keeps bringing us back to each other for some reason right.But now here comes the major problem.T. has been arrested for possesion of marajuana.As far as I know he doesn't sell it he just smokes it.I don't have a problem with that but my problem is my parents keep butting into my life.I'm 21 going on 22 and T. is 20 going on 21.I just don't know how to handle the situation.I mean if we get together they are probably try to break us up and if they find out that were interested in each other they will probably try to stop us from getting together.So my question is can anybody help with this situation? Any advice is truly appreciated.

[faux]

Originally posted by babygirl21

Hello everyone,I have this problem and I fell like I'm just stuck at a particular spot.So here goes the story.I am interested in this guy (T.) and by his signals he is interested in me to.

 

You could ask if he's interestd. Signals and hints are silly.

 

But he is a little on the shy side I think so he hasn't really asked me out or for my phone number yet.

 

Why does he have to ask you? Why not you asking him, or giving him your number to show that you are interested? It may be that he thinks you are not interested in the least.

 

...But now here comes the major problem.T. has been arrested for possesion of marajuana.As far as I know he doesn't sell it he just smokes it.I don't have a problem with that but my problem is my parents keep butting into my life.I'm 21 going on 22 and T. is 20 going on 21.I just don't know how to handle the situation.

 

Here's a hint: Don't get involved with criminals, and respect your parents, as they know a lot more than you think they do.

 

I mean if we get together they are probably try to break us up and if they find out that were interested in each other they will probably try to stop us from getting together.So my question is can anybody help with this situation? Any advice is truly appreciated.

 

Your parents control your adult life? I said respect them, not bow to their every whim. You have a right to do what you want. Seeing as this man is into some criminal behavior I would advise that you stay away. Feel free to do what you wish to in this situation, however.