Has anyone else "broken up" but carried on acting almost exactly as you were...?

[jbsoccer]

So im sure youre all familiar with my complex situation...

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/362648-worst-thing-all

 

Me and my ex and now acting as if we are back together, she text and calls all the time. Very loving, we have sex, she wants to give me xmas presents...

What is going on?

[mammasita]

She's testing your boundaries.

[flitzanu]

yeah, wait until you bring up the relationship and she flips out about how you aren't dating anymore. that or when you get jealous when she starts dating and reiterates how you're "not together" and have no right to feel that way.

[jbsoccer]

yeah, wait until you bring up the relationship and she flips out about how you aren't dating anymore. that or when you get jealous when she starts dating and reiterates how you're "not together" and have no right to feel that way.

 

So suggestions... Cut loose completely or enjoy the rest of the time going into it with my eyes open?

[Simon Phoenix]

So suggestions... Cut loose completely or enjoy the rest of the time going into it with my eyes open?

 

If you are content on just getting laid and don't care otherwise, continue it. If you really want to have a relationship with this girl and that overrides you getting your rocks off, you have to end it ASAP. Let her know that it's 100 percent or nada.