a2nxtc28 Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 My ex boyfriend broke up with me three months ago.Im still inlove with him.I really dont think he has somebody else.But the problem is he's still calling me and im answering it..and everytime he calls me im there. He said he doesnt want a commitment right now(he works too much and has a 5 yr.old kid.)that he doesnt have time for me right now.But everytime he calls me (he always say that he misses me) and always end up going to his place and end up having sex(great sex)He wants me to wait for him,he said he just needed time.I dont know..i love him so much..but everytime after i have sex with him i feel like crap..and used.Is this ok?Im not a **** buddy person..im a commitment person.I know deep inside me im still waiting for him to tell me that he wants me back.I've tried to get away but im too weak to walk away.HEEELLPP!!
honey2005 Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 You really need to walk away. You are setting yourself up for an even bigger heartbreak. How can you expect him to say he misses you and wants you back in his life when he's already getting sex from you? Why would he want to have to give any kind of committment when he's getting the sex already. I really think you need to stop having sex with him. Stop answering the phone when he calls. Don't always be there when he needs you, and DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM. If he wants sex with you, make him be in a relationship with you first.
SoleMate Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 You're feeling used because you ARE being used. For sex. Even great sex. No, it wouldn't be OK with me, and it doesn't appear to be OK with you. Sadly, "giving" him sex after he breaks up with you, in the hope that you can "get him back" for more than sex, is counterproductive. everytime after i have sex with him i feel like crap..and used So stop having sex with him. It's that simple. And take time to grieve the end of your relationship. Because it IS over.
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