frodo1234 Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 So its comin up for 25 days since she left me for someone else, i find the weekends hardest - i'm actually perferring work at the moment for the first time in along time, i'm hooking up with old mates who i haven't seen since i was with her (about a year), and thats good, thats what you gotta do - get out there isn't it? Its just difficult to stop thinking about her, we never even did that much on the weekends - well not really, but now everything just feels so empty, even with mates, i'm hoping and sure that just going out getting on with it, and eventually the worm will turn - but there's those times of self-doubt when i think i'm never gonna feel any better. I keep playing things over in my head, i know i shouldn't but its extremly difficult, its been nearly a month and although there's been no drama since we split up i feel guilty in that i cant get it togethor, i need to move on and be happy by myself, i dont want another relationship for a while as at the moment ijust think of her, i think i'll know when i'm over her because i'll be happy sitting in on a saturday night rather than trying to find friends to go out with.. this really is the worst feeling in the world, i really want her to ring me, but i know i want to hear her for the wrong reasons...i should have got this sorted by now, i know she has...
VroomGrl21 Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 Sorry to hear that I'm going thru similar worst feelings. My ex has started dating someone else and not bother to contact me, I feel the worst on weekends too because I feel empty, and like I should be doing something productive but I usually sit around drowning in old memories. I wish he can call me up even though it's only been 2 days of N/C and 2 weeks of them dating, and I know it's for the wrong reasons (that he'll say he misses me and wants to get back together) but I know it's not going to happen. However, I do think that finding friends to go out with will slowly help mend the pain while keeping you busy, because it helps you see that there are people who still care about you. I think the first step, at least for me was by REALLY learning to accept that he's never coming back, but life goes on...
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