Indy C Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Okay so my current situation. Recently got over my last relationship that lasted for 4 years so i'm REALLY out of practice when it comes to asking a girl out. I'm 21 and moved back in with my family when I broke up with my ex. Now here is my problem an old co-worker of mine before I moved out has been wanting to hang out, and I would love to do that, but I can't tell if she's hitting on me or if she just wants to hang out as friends. She is fully aware of how my last relationship ended, and she even stayed up with me and helped me through a rough night, and we are both single. We've hung out a few times but everytime I start second guessing myself and instead of being my natural self I'm trying to be something..."more" I guess is the best way I can put it, and I dont know why. How does one break that habit ? It's really wierd for me because normally I don't care what people think and not afraid to show my true colors, but when I get around her I start over thinking EVERYTHING! I'll be set up for a joke and I start doubting whether or not the joke is actually funny where as normally I would just throw it out there and I usually get a few laughs. Another example is I know I miss being in a relationship so then I start wondering am I interested in dating her because I miss being in a relationship or do I genuinly like her. She is cute, funny, incredibly smart, and has all the same family values I'm looking for in a girl. Anyone else had this issue and if so whats the best way to over come it ? Just kinda stuck right now and would love a second opinion
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