HaveFaithxx Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 My ex bf and I broke up about a month ago. He broke up with me because of circumstance and said that he still loved me and didn't want to do it, but that we had to which I understand. I was still hoping that we would get back together though. We did not fight or anything when we broke up, he wanted to stay friends and keep in touch, but I said it would be too hard right now, but I would like to when I was over him. We have had limited contact and I have acted as if I am totally fine and happy. Thre weeks ago, I asked him if he could come over and drop off my things. He said he could not meet me at my place, it had to be somewhere else. I couldn't understand why so I kept asking him why. He said it's because I want to "forget about him". I kept saying that I am fine, and he kept repeating himself, that it wasn't a good idea because I said I needed to forget him even though I haven't showed him at all that I am heartbroken or having a hard time, just the opposite. Finally he said, "it's too hard for me to go there with all the memories." Then I thought he might have been hurt that I didn't seem sad at all to break up, so I explained that I do still care about him, but I was doing my best to move on and that I would be ok to meet. I asked him again a week later if we could meet, and he has agreed and then suggested I meet him at the university library, where they have private studyrooms that you can book. I just don't understand why he won't come over. I really have a hard time believing that he finds it so difficult to come over when we have been together for a year and he's been to my place hundreds of times. He broke up with me, and I have not cried or begged or anything. The university is so out of the way for the both of us, and it will be so hard to relax in a place like that. I just can't believe that is the reason he won't come over. What do you think? This really hurts me.
WhatYouWantToHear Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 He doesn't want to be in a situation that is an opportunity to bang you. Sounds like he really wants to move on. He also knows he likes sex and it would be very easy to have something physical with you so he doesn't want to be in a situation that could end up giving you mixed signals.
Author HaveFaithxx Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 How is he so sure that I would have sex with him? I would not have sex with someone who broke up with me. I respect my self more than that; I love him and want him back. But I am not desperate and he knows that. Do guys think that there is a chance that would happen?
WhatYouWantToHear Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Are you trying to convince me or yourself? 1
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