Javabear Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I really don't want to put a lot of thought into this because I am doing very well at the moment making myself happy and enjoying the life I have without my ex. However, the last couple days I haven't been able to stop thinking... If you want the full details of our breakup I suggest reading my other posts, but basically he left me three months ago for what he claimed were feelings for another girl but I suspect he had some commitment issues and also we're pretty young. Anyway, a month and a half after the official breakup he told me that he still cared for me and respected me as a friend and an incredible person blah blah blah but he had moved on and it was easier for him than it was for me because, as I had been saying, he was never as invested as I was (which I think is not true at all). He didn't initiate any contact in the last three months and he didn't come to get his stuff from my apartment so last week I packed it all up and brought it to him. He didn't thank me, he just took it and asked me some generic questions about my life. He was acting uncomfortable so I said I was going to leave but then he kept asking questions. I went home and cried for the rest of the day because I knew that it was absolutely time to let him go. And then yesterday I took the GRE which I had been stressing about for a long time. He had been helping me study over the summer and he knew I was taking it this week, but I didn't know he knew when. But, he texted me yesterday wishing me good luck. Odd, right? I'm not getting my hopes up and at this point I'm not even sure I would take him back if he asked me. But I can't help wondering if he is finally realizing the gravity of the choice he made. The girl he left me for does not seem all that interested in him... they're not dating or anything and our relationship was really great up until he decided it wasn't. Is there any possibility of salvaging our relationship were he to come back? And why is he texting me now about this test? Also, he hasn't taken any of our pictures off Facebook (I checked today for the first time, looked through all our happiest pictures and felt nothing which was shocking and scary) like I have. What's going on here?
Gottabestrong Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Don't read into it. He was probably just trying to be nice. You guys have not seen each other in a few months, but last week you met when you gave him his things. That might have brought back some memories and maybe he had put the date of your test in his phone months ago when he helped you study. And when he saw the reminder he figured he would send you a "Good luck" message. There is probably no deeper meaning to it.
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