surfer67 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I have a serious, exclusive thing with this guy. We are on our college break and we would typically talk or at least exchange a few texts a day. We havnt talked for three days now. Does he not miss me?? PS. I know he likes me and Im not a booty call. Dont tell me to talk to him first because I have been initiating it a lot before.
DontWorryBHappy Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 College break is rough. I just started seeing a guy and he still has been texting, but its getting less and less. Today he texted once with a question and I responded, then asked a question. But no response to my question. Granted, I know just works late often times, but I figured he would respond after work or something..so I share your feelings.
newmoon Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 maybe he is enjoying his time away from school (and you, to a degree). leave him alone - let him get in touch when he wants to. aside from showing you as non-clingy and emotionally stable, it'll allow you to see just how long he can go without wanting to contact you. a guy who is seriously interested won't go more than 3-5 days without contact. this is a good 'test' of his interest. so, go enjoy your own vacation time and don't worry over when you'll get texted - you will, it's just a matter of when
SoulSearcher22 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I'm a guy, and for me...if there was a girl i was seeing that I was really interested in, I wouldn't go for more than a day without atleast minimal contact. I'd send SOMETHING to let her know she's on my mind. Forget all those freakin games to see who texts first and **** like that. I'll text when I want to talk, and if I like you, it's going to be alot. If i see she isn't EVER initating, then there may be something wrong.
SureYeahWhyNot Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I disagree with soulsearcher. After awhile it gets kind of tedious texting every single day when the conversations all start becoming the same. But 3 days is quite a while for him not to say anything to you, especially if you're the one initiating the conversations all the time. How long have you been together?
SureYeahWhyNot Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Oh, more than a day? Yeah, nevermind. I kind of agree with that. A day isn't a big deal, two days would feel like a long time to me.
SoulSearcher22 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Oh, more than a day? Yeah, nevermind. I kind of agree with that. A day isn't a big deal, two days would feel like a long time to me. Yeah ya know? If I've been with her for a while, then yeah we won't be texting all day like in the honeymoon period. I don't know if yall are together officially but any more than a day without any kind of contact with your established boyfriend or girlfriend seems weird to me.
PogoStick Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 It's funny how times have changed. Before mobiles, once a week would have been acceptable. It used to cost money to call long distance. Needing contact everyday is so insecure. Some girls even freak out now when it takes a few hours to respond. At times I even go a day or two with my phone on silent and don't even check it. If a girl can't handle that then we're not a good match. "What did you do today?" "Got up, brushed my teeth, ate some food." "Hey me too!" "Love you, Let's talk tomorrow too."
SureYeahWhyNot Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Yeah sometimes I think everyone would be better off if they just didn't text at all when it comes to relationships.
weee111 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Just saying, but if you have mostly been initiating contact it's quite possible you are both waiting each other out....
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