livelife Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 in a nutshell: me and my ex have been working on things but recently he met a girl from a different state from TWITTER and started talking to her. I told him I had wished them two the best and then that was it. He replied by saying "Like I have said continuously- there might be another chance at us in the future. Who knows." I didn't reply. I have gone NC since Saturday morning. I had been fine and then last night I kissed a guy, the first guy since my ex, and I started crying. Whats funny is that it was an ex I had posted about on here yearsss ago, me and him are cool with eachother, and it just happened, but he was very sweet about it and understanding (we talk to eachother about our current exs). Anyways, woke up today: felt fine. I see online that this girl is coming to visit my ex for New Years eve and that kinda got to me. Cried for a minute, but got over it.. Then I get a text from my ex a little bit later. Why? I don't know. It was a picture of a tweet that was dated on Monday. He went to a confrence for his fraternity this weekend and it was a tweet that some guy sent him saying that he will do good things in the future. Why did he send that to me? Why the **** would I care? Good for you. Obviously, i'm going to make you all proud and NOT reply And it feels good to have that power, but seriously it's bothering me as to why he would send that to me, it happened Monday, and just randomly send it to me today? What kind of response was he expecting out of me? "Proud of you!" No. Not happening bud. 2
flitzanu Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 in a nutshell: me and my ex have been working on things but recently he met a girl from a different state from TWITTER and started talking to her. I told him I had wished them two the best and then that was it. He replied by saying "Like I have said continuously- there might be another chance at us in the future. Who knows." I didn't reply. I have gone NC since Saturday morning. I had been fine and then last night I kissed a guy, the first guy since my ex, and I started crying. Whats funny is that it was an ex I had posted about on here yearsss ago, me and him are cool with eachother, and it just happened, but he was very sweet about it and understanding (we talk to eachother about our current exs). Anyways, woke up today: felt fine. I see online that this girl is coming to visit my ex for New Years eve and that kinda got to me. Cried for a minute, but got over it.. Then I get a text from my ex a little bit later. Why? I don't know. It was a picture of a tweet that was dated on Monday. He went to a confrence for his fraternity this weekend and it was a tweet that some guy sent him saying that he will do good things in the future. Why did he send that to me? Why the **** would I care? Good for you. Obviously, i'm going to make you all proud and NOT reply And it feels good to have that power, but seriously it's bothering me as to why he would send that to me, it happened Monday, and just randomly send it to me today? What kind of response was he expecting out of me? "Proud of you!" No. Not happening bud. maybe he has a crush on the guy that tweeted him and he's telling you about it.
Author livelife Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 alright, sarcasm isn't necessary.
na49 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I think flitz is trying to say that the text from him doesn't mean anything.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Probably a reference to the world ending on Friday as predicted by the Mayan calendar.
flitzanu Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 alright, sarcasm isn't necessary. if my idea is wrong that means you must have your own assumption as to what it means. so what's your idea as to why?
veggirl Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 How long had it been since you contacted him? He is probably just trying to get some attention if you haven't contacted him the way you were at first when you guys broke up.
Author livelife Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 How long had it been since you contacted him? He is probably just trying to get some attention if you haven't contacted him the way you were at first when you guys broke up. I think this is why. I was constantly texting him. I completely dropped off the face of the earth to him. We had slight contact on Satuday, but barely. So I guess Friday you could say, since I sent him a text friday, but didn't reply to his.
Author livelife Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 I hate that all it takes is one little thing from them and it throws everything off. I'm in an off mood. Constantly wondering what hes thinking, why he would even bother to text me, etc.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I hate that all it takes is one little thing from them and it throws everything off. I'm in an off mood. Constantly wondering what hes thinking, why he would even bother to text me, etc. The sooner you get in your head that it doesn't matter, the better you'll be. Or block him and save yourself the trouble.
na49 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I hate that all it takes is one little thing from them and it throws everything off. I'm in an off mood. Constantly wondering what hes thinking, why he would even bother to text me, etc. I know the feeling. When we are feeling better about losing them is when they make their way back into our lives somehow with a stupid text message or phone call. It's like they know when we are doing fine without them and that's when they strike. As much as you'd love to know what he's thinking, the only way to find out is to talk to him. Which you DON'T want to do. His messages really don't mean anything (or they don't mean anything that benefits you) so try not to play twenty questions with yourself. It's not worth it.
MichiganMan222 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 He doesn't want you, but wants you to want him. You're bruising his ego by not turning into a gooey, begging, blubbering heap of despair. Keep up the good work! 3
cavalier99 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 (edited) I vote to stay NC and block him. Edited December 20, 2012 by cavalier99
Quest4_TheLost Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I agree with michigan 100%.. He needs his ego stroked. He misses your contact and trying to get him back. Congrats on being able to ignore him! Cause I myself suck at it. :bunny:HUGS:bunny:
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