Misslovely Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 My bf and i have been togther for almost 9months now. Things we're pretty good, or least i thought so. We had some problems quite recently and ever since things havnt been the same. I feel this distance even when we're in the same room. Just the other day i went through his phone and seen some msgs from a couple of ladies including pictures! I also seen him confess his still in love with his baby mama. But when i confronted him about it he lied about it all, saying stuff like "i never actually slept with her"! I love him so much that iv put up with his bull**** for so long, including getting an abortion which i had to go through all alone! Just today we had another fight and he finally admitted he dsnt love me as much as i thought he did and that his still in love with his baby mama. I feel so betrayed and hurt. Need advice please!
mammasita Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 What else do you need to know other than to let him go!? He has no respect for you, lies to you and has told you straight up that he's not in love with you. Erase him from your life. Delete his number, block him, delete him. You will be much happier without him in the long run. I promise. 2
lovefiction Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I am sorry... That sounds like a painful place to be... You have made some very big sacrifices for this man but it seems he does not deserve them. He clearly does not respect you and as much as you might want to be with him, he doesn't sound like the type of man who will change. I would definitely leave him behind and focus on yourself. Most importantly, you should probably be using contraceptive until you know that you are with someone who wants to have children with you... If this man already has a child and is not supporting the previous woman, chances are he will do the same to you... 1
RedHead33 Posted December 27, 2012 Posted December 27, 2012 So much and you're with him only 9 months. Time to say bye bye and move on. If things like this are happening now, what do you expect in couple of years.
users Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Okay you need to forget this guy. He is not totally invested in you. Think of it like buying a stock. You buy for the long haul ( years and the value grows) or you buy for a quick sell and a quick profit. In this case if he was thinking of long term investment in you he would not jerk you around. He would let the relationship grow over time and the value of a great long term relationship where both are invested with emotions in it is wonderful. And I am not talking 9 months, but years and a real commitment. Instead it seems he is looking to flip you and get into another investment. It hurts but it will hurt more if you don't minimize the damage now and get out.
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