joel Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 man it suxs find out my sis is like dating or being with a guy -this is her second guy and she is 3 yrs younger than me. damnnnn first guy was from meeting from work. i feel so inferior about this. anyways even if i had a gf where the heck would we do it -i live at home remember. my sis dating another is defeintly a blow to me hurts my eagle. who nows she might not even be a virgin, yea and i am.maybe mom thinks that she dating a guy is ok b/c the guy pays and .... while i date a girl i would have to pay and my folks are soo cheap they don't want me to waste money even if it is my money.maybe they just give her more freedom than me sometimes it sure seems like that. even wasting 5 dollars to my folks is like 500 dollars to normal ppl.
treeman Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 lol don't worry about it buddy. Things will turn up. My sister still hasn't had a boyfriend and i'm 4 years younger and i've had one for nearly 2 years now. She's 23 so unless your older than that don't get too worried yet. Her relationships probably won't work out anyway. Even if you were older than 23 still don't worry things have a habit of coming around when u least expect. -Ben
treegirl Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 I'm the famous girlfriend Treeman was talking about hehehe If you think about things too much, they don't seem to happen when you want them too, set your mind on something else and you never know what might come around...... I'm the youngest in my family - I have 2 older brothers, one is 24 and the other is nearly 22. The 24 year old isn't in a serious relationship and never really has been, the nearly 22 year old one is in a relationship with his girlfriend, they've been together 2 years and you know that I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years! Just coz your older.... doesn't mean your gonna get someone first.... that's now how it works.... no-one knows how it works.... Give it time.... your sister probably won't even be able to handle a strong, secure relationship.... don't let it get you down. Love TreeGirl xoxo
honey2005 Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 Joel, don't worry. You're going to find a girl to be with you just have to be patient. Go out, meet new people, but don't get all upset just because your sister is dating and you're not. And don't worry about where you're going to be having sex with your girlfriend yet, either. you have to meet a nice girl and get to know her before you can start planning things like that.
Curt Posted August 14, 2004 Moderators Posted August 14, 2004 Just don't worry about it, Joel. So what if she's getting BF's earlier than you are getting girls. She may have dozens and not find the right one. You may only take 3 or four GF's and, because of the selection process you went through, find someone who is your match. And maybe not, but then who cares man! Don't sweat that stuff. It means nothing in the final analysis. Curt
RowanRavyn Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 It can be distressing to "sit on the sidelines" as it were, but listen to these folks, hun. They are right. Quantity of dating does not equal quality of dating.
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