He text me...?

[KJBA2816]

Well when we broke up he was very mean about it, he cut me off and found a new girl, he didn't even allow me to speak to him to see him. I was in that crazy stage where I was breaking no contact every two days and finally I just stopped and the last 8 days I have been no contact and I have enjoyed my life, blocked him from everything and just got on with it and I thought he would go off and enjoy his life with the new gf and that was that. I got a text from him this morning simply stating he hopes I am okay and everything is good and he doesn't expect a reply from me and he hoped I have a good Christmas and he put a wee joke in between the two of us at the end? Now I definitely know I am not replying but... What on earth is he playing at? This guy dragged me backwards trough cr*p I dumped him a few months later we got back together it was good then he dumps me for a new girl saying he was using me and didn't want anything to do with me after everything I had done for him in our 14 months together? What the eff?!

Edited December 19, 2012 by KJBA2816
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[cavalier99]

Who know what he wants? Maybe to feel like a nice guy. Moment of remorse? Maybe he want to have you as FWB?

 

Just bread crumbs. Block and delete! You know this! Lol

[KJBA2816]

Yeah I know what to do just for all the time I kept breaking NC he ignored it and its been 9 days since NC and I have been strong and he texts me? Eh.. No, not replying! Thanks

[flitzanu]

there's no real "game" involved, it just means he wants to keep you as an option to sleep with.

[Simon Phoenix]

I think he wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas.

[KJBA2816]

Nah he's not as simple as that. Thanks for your messages! Just need to keep NC

[flitzanu]

Nah he's not as simple as that. Thanks for your messages! Just need to keep NC

 

yes, he is.

 

here's your first lesson as a girl, from a guy.

 

guys really are that simple.

 

don't read between the lines, because there are no lines.

 

but yes, contine your NC because that text means zero, zilch, nothing.

[KJBA2816]

If he cared he would show he cares before doing the lists upon lists of stuff he did to me, not a pathetic text. He isn't a simple as this, maybe most guys are but he really isn't. It doesn't matter anyways because his part in my life is over. Thanks anyway! x

Edited December 19, 2012 by KJBA2816
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[Samilia]

Probably want to keep you as his FWB, or doesn't want to be the bad guy. Maybe both, one stone, two birds.

 

After what he's told you I wouldn't even bother wondering why, I'd delete and forget too.

[Simon Phoenix]

If he cared he would show he cares before doing the lists upon lists of stuff he did to me, not a pathetic text. He isn't a simple as this, maybe most guys are but he really isn't. It doesn't matter anyways because his part in my life is over. Thanks anyway! x

 

Pro tip: The simplest explanation is usually the correct one, especially when dealing with men.

[flitzanu]

pro tip: The simplest explanation is usually the correct one, especially when dealing with men.

 

no, men are so complex and have such deep mysterious meaning!!!