roserose9081 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 So my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after 4 yrs of relationship. Last call, i wanted to say "good luck your life and find some happiness blah blah..." and i told him if he has anything similar to tell me, please do. He told me he will do it in a week but he didn't. He sent me a short email "obviously you have changed your phone number or you deleted me but it's ok. I understand. I will send you another email this weekend as i told you on the phone." I replied him back "I haven't changed my phone number. But i deleted that app because not hearing from you with it was source of my pain when I use my phone." And he hasn't sent me any email from then on. (Been 5 days) Is he hesitating to letting me go and say final goodbye? Or just he doesn't wanna bother anymore with emails? I know it's meaningless to ask you guys. But it's so painful not knowing what's going on... Any similar experience? Or any advice?
movingon12 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 It's over. There's nothing for him to say. He's not your boyfriend anymore so doesn't owe you anything anymore. Be grateful he's making it easier by not contacting you all the time (though I'm sure he'll get in touch at some point, they usually do).
todreaminblue Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 So my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after 4 yrs of relationship. Last call, i wanted to say "good luck your life and find some happiness blah blah..." and i told him if he has anything similar to tell me, please do. He told me he will do it in a week but he didn't. He sent me a short email "obviously you have changed your phone number or you deleted me but it's ok. I understand. I will send you another email this weekend as i told you on the phone." I replied him back "I haven't changed my phone number. But i deleted that app because not hearing from you with it was source of my pain when I use my phone." And he hasn't sent me any email from then on. (Been 5 days) Is he hesitating to letting me go and say final goodbye? Or just he doesn't wanna bother anymore with emails? I know it's meaningless to ask you guys. But it's so painful not knowing what's going on... Any similar experience? Or any advice? Dont know, dont understand guys at all........i prefer to speak in person.....i get jumpy with one sided phone conversations or texts or emails......i start to feel liek a stalker......and then i dont text anymore because it really isnt my style to stalk....i know what it feels like and it used to scare the crap out of me.....so i have a double whammy of guilt...but i am a messed up female......i also dont liek being ignored that makes me sad when my ex used to cheat i would try and call him and hsi phoen woudl eb off made me feel sick ..i would wait up....pathetic huh...so i am nto oen to play games .......i dotn understand peopel who intentionally do....i miss messages sure....but i eventually contact that person adn say hey i got your message you have to know its deb because i am ringing back a week later...i actually missed a message on my answering machine tried to call the person was goign to have a laugh abotu it.....left some messages.....he didnt call....so who knows what happened try and call him tell him exactly how you feel and why you fidn it painful if he doesnt reply then.....its time for you to heal.....take as much time as you need go easy on yourself....best wishes.....deb
Amelie1980 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 My ex.did that. said he'd call then he didn't. I think its just telling you what youbwant ro hear.
LostOne1 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Basically it's over and he doesn't know how to say it any clearer.... It's going to hurt a lot for awhile I know.. been there already. But that's what it seems like at the moment.
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